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Thorn in your side Tuesday
| Tue, 10-07-2014 - 9:40am |
Admit it, There's always going to be somebody, something or something somebody does or says that bothers you. When that happens how do you deal with it

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You do have a choice. You can say NOTHING. to anyone. You do have that choice.
I was telling a story and answering the question. One story out of a ton.
You're not making any sense.
For what ever it is that she thinks you've done.
Nope. I am not going to give her the satisfaction to go around and lie about my morals and ethics and call me what she did again.
You may not think that you did anything wrong, but from her perspective, you did. It's your choice not to apologize, but it seems to me that your dh is the one paying the price.
And that may never happen b/c to her "normal" is her vindictive and bitter ways and attacks at/about you and about others. I get it and I get that they live hard and difficult lives, My MIL's history is actually sad.
The other day I, gasped, asked about my husband's mother b/c I knew it was her birthday, Whatever possessed me to ask I have no clue... Lol.
You don't speak to this person and you don't see others that speak about it....so how exaclty is it still in your life?
PumpkinAngel
You aren't making any sense because earlier you said it was being brought up every few months or so, but you don't see this person, you don't speak about it outside of this perons, you don't see other people who speak about it....so why on earth is it still such an issue with you that you can't move past this issue?
PumpkinAngel
That's what this is all about, she called you a name? Who the freak cares at this point, 20 years later? Why are you giving her the power to be irked and talk about it all the time?
PumpkinAngel
...and perhaps the kids?
PumpkinAngel
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