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Thorn in your side Tuesday
| Tue, 10-07-2014 - 9:40am |
Admit it, There's always going to be somebody, something or something somebody does or says that bothers you. When that happens how do you deal with it

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Aaaaand, there it is.
"I saved him."
See? There's your problem. You want THEM to act differently. You can't change another person's actions. You can only change your own actions and reactions.
And, as the saying goes "The people in hell want ice water too."
"I don’t mind a banshee, that’s fine. 2 banshees? I HATE you. I actually wish bad things upon you." -- Day[9] Daily #459 P1
No one said Molly was placing the kids in the middle. But you can't seriously believe that if a child's mother and grandmother had a great relationship thta it wouldn't enhance that child's life.
"I don’t mind a banshee, that’s fine. 2 banshees? I HATE you. I actually wish bad things upon you." -- Day[9] Daily #459 P1
So, the kids ARE paying the price for this rift.
"I don’t mind a banshee, that’s fine. 2 banshees? I HATE you. I actually wish bad things upon you." -- Day[9] Daily #459 P1
So it does impact the kids, that is a shame.
Yes and no. It impacts US but they don't really know or care.
You are in the same room when your dh talks to her or in the same room with her? Why your dh needs to share with you something that hurts you is something that I don't understand. Why would he share something that he knows will hurt you? Of course, you are his savior from those horrible people that you don't want a relationship with but still want to try over and over again, despite the pain that it costs your family, you are just a victim!! baer.
PumpkinAngel
Given that your behavior here at times is representative of some of the traits you claim she has, I have to wonder how much this has impacted you over the years. Therapy might be a good idea if you are still holding on to this for 30 years plus. Thirty plus years is a long time to be dealing with this, with the same results, don't you think it might be time to do something different?
Ok, you are not even reading my posts. I don't even KNOW my dh 30 years lolololol.
What do your children do to make an effort to have a relationship with them? '
I am not going to answer that as I am not getting into things that have to do with my children here like that. Thanks for understanding.
Then stop already, you are not changing your pattern of behavior either, so why do you think it will magically stop? Omg, I can't imagine living with this for 30 years and letting it bother me so much, life is way too short for this type of stuff, imo. I feel sorry for both sides of this situation and all involved.
PumpkinAngel
They don't know or care about their grandparents? Why?
PumpkinAngel
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