Underage Drinking

Well, your kids shouldn't have attended a function without "proper" supervision (TSA with full body scanners at all entrances?, I surmise.) But hey, what do I know, my dd 18, is skiing in Quebec this week, with fully legal alcohol access and unsupervised by parents. Some kids will always spike the punch, or bring the weed and some are probably from great families with superb supervision. My husband was a very bad teen, and he survived to become a very productive adult. I don't like his teen stories, but what can I do? I didn't know him then and he changed before I met him. We've done our best to put our kids into making the correct decision in these situations. Don't drink, but if you do, don't drive. And if you do make a mistake, don't continue to make them. I have little worries about my oldest and youngest, but the middle child is going to be a constant challenge. He is susceptible to peer pressure, it is just what it is. He may not be the child bringing in the booze, but he might imbibe as a follower. We are working on his self-esteem issues with therapy, dealing with his clinical depression with meds, but he is at risk because that's who he is. We will supervise very closely, but as he gets older we can not micromanage his choices. He knows the druggies at school (even the private school we switched him to), he's attracted to them, but so far he's kept his distance. I guess we're bad parents.