Would you do this?

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Fri, 04-04-2014 - 8:05pm

Compassion again:  http://truestoriesofamidwestyankee.wordpress.com/2014/03/19/to-the-woman-behind-me-in-line-at-the-grocery-store/

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Mon, 04-07-2014 - 2:41pm

blackandwhitemolly wrote:
<p><strong><span style="font-size:13px; text-align:left; background-color:#f6f6f6">When you can't debate the subject, attack the person</strong></p>

Which is why twice within a week's span, you've attempted to throw my marital status in my face.  As if it were something to be ashamed of rather than proud of.  As if I were somehow less than others for failing to attach myself to a man. 

You act like it's something I should hang my head over.  And I don't know why that is.  I have no objection to others being married, so I'm at a loss to understand why you constantly attack me for not being married.

Did I wish to marry my ex at one time?  Yes, of course.  He's a good man.  But we weren't suited.  And I have a good life.  An excellent life.  I have a son over whom any woman would be proud. I have the world's kindest, smartest and funniest daughter-in-law--whose family is equally awesome.  I love them dearly.  I have achieved "honorary gramma" status with my DIL's nephew who is seriously an delightful adorable boy.  I have 2 wonderful grandchildren  besides my honorary grandchild.  My life is full and blessed and happy and wonderful.

Your paltry slings and arrows are pathetic.  Like shooting Nerf arrows at a battalion of tanks.  They don't even sting me, and they make you look like a raging, vicious, cowardly (and stupid) witch.  I don't know why you keep it up, but I thank you for doing so because it's hilarious.  Seriously, seriously hilarious.  Like when a toddler calls you a poopoo head when you make them take a bath and go to bed.  and It hink from here on out when you trot out those lame attacks, I will address you in the same way I would address a raging, powerless toddler tossing every 'bad word' he can think of at me.

Okay dear.  Sleep tight.

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Mon, 04-07-2014 - 2:42pm

blackandwhitemolly wrote:
<p><span style="font-size:13px; text-align:left">Not really.  No one cares how often you do and do not curse, other than the fact that <strong>you are trying to make yourself look better than others when you engage in the very same behavior</strong>.  Only less often.  So that makes it all right.  Not really.</span></p><p><strong><span style="font-size:13px; text-align:left">Nope, but of course you think so. Maybe you can speak to the posters who curse on a regular basis on here alone. </span></strong></p>

Problem is, those who do curse "regularly" here, aren't making any judgments based upon cursing. THerefore, they aren't being hypocritical.

"I don’t mind a banshee, that’s fine. 2 banshees? I HATE you. I actually wish bad things upon you." -- Day[9] Daily #459 P1

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Mon, 04-07-2014 - 2:42pm

blackandwhitemolly wrote:
<p>Oh dear lord, the purse thing was like, what 9 years ago? </p>

And the patio thing was like 5 years ago. And my divorce was ELEVEN years ago.   

"I don’t mind a banshee, that’s fine. 2 banshees? I HATE you. I actually wish bad things upon you." -- Day[9] Daily #459 P1

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Mon, 04-07-2014 - 2:43pm

Where did I say anything about me being better?

You are so flucking full of flucking bullshit.  I would bet $1000 that I have a much stronger and diverse vocabulary than you do.

Granted, I don't use the word in daily conversation, but I use it.

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Mon, 04-07-2014 - 2:45pm

blackandwhitemolly wrote:
<div style="border-bottom-color:#cccccc; border-bottom-width:1px; border-bottom-style:solid; font-size:13px; text-align:left"><div><div><div>Why?  They are not hypocrites.  I do not care whether someone curses hourly, daily, rarely, or never.</div></div><div><strong>You don't? So you would be happy with a young lady dating your sons who had a mouth like a trucker? </strong></div></div></div>
Is she a trucker? My happiness or unhappiness about the young lady would have little to do with her language, and more to do with the type of person she is.

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Mon, 04-07-2014 - 2:45pm

Problem is, those who do curse "regularly" here, aren't making any judgments based upon cursing. THerefore, they aren't being hypocritical.

Oh my...seriously? Of course they would NOT. They find that type of language fine to use on an everyday basis. 

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Mon, 04-07-2014 - 2:46pm

blackandwhitemolly wrote:
<p style="font-size:13px; text-align:left">Where did I say anything about me being better?</p><p style="font-size:13px; text-align:left"><strong>You are so flucking full of flucking bullshit.  I would bet $1000 that I have a much stronger and diverse vocabulary than you do.</strong></p><p style="font-size:13px; text-align:left"><strong>Granted, I don't use the word in daily conversation, but I use it.</strong></p>

Thank you for finding it for me.  An example of not taking ownership of her own actions either, It's easier for her to point the finger, Be it you or I, her ex, the contractor, etc etc...  

 

 

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Mon, 04-07-2014 - 2:47pm

blackandwhitemolly wrote:
<p><span style="font-size:13px; text-align:left"><strong>When you can't debate the subject, attack the person</strong>.  </span><span style="font-size:13px; text-align:left">If this is an example of the morals and ethics you are teaching your children, we are not even on the same page.</span></p><p><strong><span style="font-size:13px; text-align:left">Just like you and Graph just did in this thread. What does that say about the both of you?</span></strong></p>

I can't and won't speak for Graph, but I didn't attack anyone.  You pretty much conceded this entire thread when you started out attacking a minor child instead of answering the op.  Is that something you were taught and are teaching yourself?  

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Mon, 04-07-2014 - 2:47pm

Is she a trucker?

Nope

My happiness or unhappiness about the young lady would have little to do with her language, and more to do with the type of person she is.

What type of person do you think would use foul language on an everyday basis in conversation? 

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Mon, 04-07-2014 - 2:47pm

blackandwhitemolly wrote:
<p>So what is your point PKA if you don't think I curse here a lot? Using ONE word in 9 years is now considered to be morally undone? You are funny. You really are. </p>

My point is (besides issues with reading comprehension) is that you lied, again.  Second point is that your logic is flawed if you are complaining about cursing it seems quite silly to curse yourself.  Third point is that again, cursing isn't the issue, it just showed the hypocrisy in your statements.   None of this shocks me or goes into morally undone, that was pretty much accomplished a long time ago through your actions.

PumpkinAngel

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