Would you hire a hot nanny?

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Registered: 07-21-2003
Would you hire a hot nanny?
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Mon, 09-29-2003 - 4:45pm
The other thread about being jealous of the nanny reminded me of this. Everyday when I come home from school I pass by the most gorgeous nanny (she looks all of 18), waiting with one of her charges for another one to get off the bus. She's been dressed in shorts up to there and low cut belly shirts. I can't imagine why anyone in their right mind would hire her. I mean, you can trust your husband but still, who needs it? Even if your husband didn't have a wandering eye, I'd hate to have to compare myself to some PYT all the time.

I had a friend who was rather average looking and she hired an absolute knockout of a nanny from Romania. This girl looked like a model, and she also used to run around in a t-shirt and panties.

Is it me, or would this bug anyone else?

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Registered: 03-26-2003
Sat, 11-22-2003 - 3:35pm
They both sound like they've got a lot of pluck. John must get that from his momma. Are they going to be living near you?
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Registered: 07-21-2003
Sat, 11-22-2003 - 3:49pm
Sounds like they've got their act together, good for them.

I'm curious about one thing though, I could never figure out how single moms could afford to attend college and support a child without working? Do her parents help out? Also who watches the baby while she's in school? Do colleges have daycare now? I went in the dark ages when they didn't...

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Registered: 11-22-2003
Sat, 11-22-2003 - 6:27pm
If I ever hired a nanny - which wouldn't happen unless I was famous - she would look like Mrs.doubtfire.....i'm sorry but you can't trust men - however devoted they seem!
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Registered: 03-26-2003
Sat, 11-22-2003 - 11:00pm
>>>I'm curious about one thing though, I could never figure out how single moms could afford to attend college and support a child without working? Do her parents help out? Also who watches the baby while she's in school? Do colleges have daycare now? I went in the dark ages when they didn't...

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When I worked in a university, a young woman with a young child (she had him when she was 14) worked for me while attending school full time. Her family didn't live near by & couldn't afford to help her out financially. She attended a high school for pregnant teens, (the school provided in-house day care & time for feeding, bonding, as well as parenting classes). Once in college received some assistance for partial day care tuition through a state work/school program. To receive the money, she needed to attend college at least 12 credits per semester. Plus, she worked approx. 30 hrs/week for me.

The university I worked for did not have an on-site day care, but the university I attended did, it was part of their education department...I think that's pretty common.

It takes a strong, hardworking, and dedicated person to pull it off (which she was). She wanted to make a good life for herself & her son...and through hard work & education, she was on her way.

There have been single moms for a long time who work, go to school, and manage to be good mothers at the same time...even in the "dark ages".

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Edited 11/23/2003 1:25:37 AM ET by iomoon

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Sat, 11-22-2003 - 11:01pm
>>>.....i'm sorry but you can't trust men - however devoted they seem!

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That's BS. You might not be able to trust your DH, but I most certainly trust mine.

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Registered: 03-26-2003
Sun, 11-23-2003 - 2:29am
Wow, why bother marrying one, then, if that's all the faith you have in the "breed"? Seems like if you really feel that way about men, what kind of nanny to hire is the LEAST of your concerns.
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Registered: 03-26-2003
Sun, 11-23-2003 - 2:36am
Well, she gets child support from the father, most of which goes towards daycare and the rest towards clothing for her son (they grow so fast at that age). she lives with her Mom (her Dad is divorced and lives in Hawaii so living with him isn't an option), which gives her housing and food and gets a small stipend from her dad (who also co-signed on her car) to pay car payments, insurance and gas, as she drives an hour each way to/from school. Her school awarded her a $5K/year scholarship based on her high school GPA, which she must maintain each year in order to receive the next year's award; failure to meet that GPA once will lose her all scholarship money from the school and she's coming up on her final year with the scholarship money secure. She makes up the rest with student loans and a couple of small, locally awarded scholarships.

Basically, she's working VERY hard and tapping all the resources available to her and based on her very hard work, those resources are panning out.

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Registered: 11-23-2003
Sun, 11-23-2003 - 3:01pm
Ha! I will never hire a nanny either unless it is under those conditions, but if I did....I'd hire an older woman with more "child care experience". Not because I don't trust my husband, I totally do. But a marriage can only with withstand so much temptation. And the same would go in the other direction as well. Much as I might love to hire a hot young pool boy and give him quarters in the pool house, I wouldn't do that either. No matter which partner is in question, why dangle the carrot if you're not 100% ok with your bait getting taken? Trust is important but so is common sense!

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