Are you "friends" with BM/SM?
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|Wed, 12-06-2006 - 3:56pm|
I ask because, as I have mentioned, there are two BMs in my story.
One (BM to SD age 13) I have never met and I have spoken to her on the phone two times in five years. We get along great! (Surely you see that I am being facetious.)
The other BM (to SD age 9 and SS age 6) I had met or been in the company of numerous times before she moved out of state.
She is...........oh, what is the word? I will call her "unpleasant". I did not break up their marriage, but I was the first woman DH dated after their split. I have suffered a lot of emotional abuse at her hands (being called ugly, the "b" word, rude, stupid...to name a few) and I witnessed her punch DH in the face on one particularly heated occasion.
I hear women say that they have great relationships with the BM or SM in their lives and I wonder how? I wonder because I have not been fortunate enough to have this experience with BM2.
Any thoughts? Is it possible to have a good relationship with BM or SM? What does it take for this to happen?
Things that make you go hmmmmmmmmmm..........