CP and NCP live about 30 miles away from each other.
Okmrsmommy-36, CPmom to DD-16 and DS-14
I say that whoever decides to move is the one to pick up the slack when it comes to meeting their children.
I remember when DH and I moved closer to the meeting place, BM complained that now we have a shorter driving commute... she made SS feel bad for her.
how did she justify making SS feel bad for her? oh how sad for BM that SS's father moved closer!