SM no longer able to avoid me.
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|Mon, 09-20-2010 - 5:01pm|
As many of you know, I've only laid eyes on SM once in the last 10+ years. I wouldn't know her if she was standing on my front porch. This is completely due to effort on her part. And since BD has never taken responsibility for anything that he could throw the current (or past) wife under the bus for, I'm sure we each have the wrong idea about the other. BD slams SM to me, I can only assume he slams me to SM. In fact, I know that he claimed to anyone and everyone that would listen to him that I cheated on him, when he was the one that did the cheating.
Anyway, next year DS and his stepsister will not only be in the same school, they will be in band together. It is unlikely that she will be able to continue avoiding me...and I'm concerned that she is going to repeat the things I'm sure BD has said about me. Although, I know I can't avoid this.
Does anyone have any ideas how I should proceed in this situation. Is there anything I can do to get in front of this problem or should I just not worry about it?