Is SM unreasonable spinoff

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Is SM unreasonable spinoff
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Thu, 08-26-2010 - 7:47am

Is BM unreasonable?


BM is the primary custodian.

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Thu, 08-26-2010 - 7:55am

Actually she's a SAHM.


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Thu, 08-26-2010 - 7:58am

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I wouldn't. Plain and simple, I wouldn't willingly give up any custodial time. If a judge ordered it, I would deal. But I wouldn't be giving away anything.

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Thu, 08-26-2010 - 8:00am

<How old are the children?>


I assume from your response that if I say they are too young for school, you would say it's ok to skip the 50/50.


So let's say just entering K and 2nd grade.

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Thu, 08-26-2010 - 8:11am

I assume from your response that if I say they are too young for school, you would say it's ok to skip the 50/50.


Yes I would.


So let's say just entering K and 2nd grade.

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Thu, 08-26-2010 - 8:22am

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Should BM willingly give up 50/50 if her ex asks it?

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Thu, 08-26-2010 - 8:43am

Why should BM agree to that, based on what I said about BD?


I just wanted to add that a "traditional" thinking BD of over 20 years probably wouldn't be asking for 50/50 off the bat anyway, since it's not the "traditional" custody agreement. So that in

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Registered: 05-19-2009
Thu, 08-26-2010 - 10:39am

So should BM willingly put herself in a situation where she loses potentially 50% control over her child's life. (BM has no impact in our home and makes no rules for her child in our home, etc., etc., etc.) >>>

No way!

I am not a believer in 50/50. I don't think it is good for most kids.

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Registered: 12-31-2009
Thu, 08-26-2010 - 1:01pm

Should BM willingly give up 50/50 if her ex asks it?

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Thu, 08-26-2010 - 1:23pm

Should BM willingly give up 50/50 if her ex asks it?

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Thu, 08-26-2010 - 1:30pm

Should BM willingly give up 50/50 if her ex asks it?

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