Is BM unreasonable?
BM is the primary custodian.
Actually she's a SAHM.
I wouldn't. Plain and simple, I wouldn't willingly give up any custodial time. If a judge ordered it, I would deal. But I wouldn't be giving away anything.
<How old are the children?>
I assume from your response that if I say they are too young for school, you would say it's ok to skip the 50/50.
So let's say just entering K and 2nd grade.
Yes I would.
Should BM willingly give up 50/50 if her ex asks it?
Why should BM agree to that, based on what I said about BD?
I just wanted to add that a "traditional" thinking BD of over 20 years probably wouldn't be asking for 50/50 off the bat anyway, since it's not the "traditional" custody agreement. So that in
So should BM willingly put herself in a situation where she loses potentially 50% control over her child's life. (BM has no impact in our home and makes no rules for her child in our home, etc., etc., etc.) >>>
I am not a believer in 50/50. I don't think it is good for most kids.