SS manipulation?

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Registered: 03-24-2012
SS manipulation?
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Sat, 03-24-2012 - 6:47pm

I know this isn't a support board, but I know that you ladies won't hold back... so give it to me... What do you think?

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Registered: 03-24-2012
Mon, 04-09-2012 - 5:00pm

Yes very true... it's not an all end be end... it's up to the judge. But those are the criterias that would've had to be met for me to even try to persue adoption/termination of rights.

She would never or would've never gave up her rights. It's a game with her... who can win! She told me (in text message) that she wanted custody so she could get child support.... she's money hungry and it's deeply affecting SS.

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Registered: 05-14-2009
Mon, 04-09-2012 - 5:06pm

That is so sad when the parents of the child could treat their own children as pawns to a game. But i can see, and one day when SS is mature enough to look past all the glitz and glam his mother is feeding him, hopefully HE'LL be able to see how much you truly care for him

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Registered: 03-24-2012
Wed, 04-11-2012 - 4:25pm

I would've thought he would see her b.s. before, but it seems to get worse. Yesterday, we got his report card. His grades have decreased for the third quarter in a row.

I'm starting to think that he's wanting to have a connection with his mom/brother (who is he close to) so he is "dumbing" himself down. His brother gets F's, SS has told me this. And his mom (no offense to anyone on here who fits this) has only her GED and will be working a dead end job for the rest of her life. She comes from trash (trailer parks, smoking while pregnant, deep south trash). It's sad, because he is ultimately affecting his future.

Anyway, I don't think his mom is thinking that she is hurting him, again I think she is too dumb to even realize it, but I think it is partly her fault, it's like she's egging it on... and putting little b.s statements in his head...

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Registered: 05-14-2009
Wed, 04-11-2012 - 4:42pm

perhaps you should take him to a job fair, and let him see what is needed to get into the high paying jobs, find out if there is a way that he can talk to the a high ranking employee of your or

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