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|Mon, 08-23-2010 - 8:23am|
Child lives with BD/SM.
At one point, SM had a legal issue with one of BM's friends emailing her place of work, posing as another person in an attempt to gather information for BM. This issue was very upsetting to SM, as her workplace had to get involved, and it was brought up in a custody case between BM and DH.
Out of the blue, this person begins to call child at BD/SM's home "just to chat". This includes leaving messages on the general answering machine.
SM is very upset by these calls, as it brings back memories of the events that occurred, and basically just makes her very angry.
Debate: Does SM have the right to dictate what people can/cannot call her stepchild on her and BD's home phone?
FTR: BD is on board with whatever SM chooses to do (including blocking the number), but since this is SM's 'decision', I wanted to ask from just SM's POV. I don't want to pretend this is also BD's decision....he is basically on board with whatever SM wants to do.
**Person could continue to call child on her cell phone. SM's issue is having to hear the voice of a person who caused her a great deal of personal grief.