First, congrats on your little girl!
I was not expecting a cesarean either. It was a gradual recovery and I didn't really feel myself until probably 8 weeks or so. Is it getting better at all?
It's difficult to recover from a C section if you've gone through a full labor. It took me awhile to completely feel back to normal -- are you seeing gradual improvement even though you're not 100%?
I hear you on the doc visits!