Sex after.....

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Registered: 05-08-2008
Sex after.....
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Tue, 12-23-2008 - 7:13pm

I've finally gotten the ok for intercourse after my surgery and I'm a little freaked out. I know i didn't deliver the baby vaginally but it has been quite a while. I was pregnant with twins and was cut off from sex pretty early on. I'm horrified that its going to hurt, feel different, etc.

Any advice?

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Registered: 07-12-2006
In reply to: jen2babies
Fri, 12-26-2008 - 11:46pm

Hi,


I don't know how long ago it was since you had your babies but we "did" it after a month wich I did not know you are not suposed to because I thought since it was c/s it was ok but later on I read about the posible infection etc.... well we did it after 26 days I think and it dit not hurt at all, it was justt like before since it was after c/s so don't worry about it. This time I will aske doctor how long we should wait because we also stoped "doing" it as soon as I found out I was pregnant - so long time ago :-)))

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In reply to: jen2babies
Sun, 12-28-2008 - 4:19pm

I always had difficulty after birthing -- not because of the surgery but because of the hormones that come with BFing. It was very uncomfortable for quite awhile until DH and I got back in the swing. I know it's been posted a lot before, but the key is LOTS of lube and take it slow.


G/L

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