Not too old to care

Community Leader
Registered: 04-18-2003
Not too old to care
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Thu, 10-06-2011 - 11:25am

A couple of times in the last month I've heard variations of "too old to care" about birthing procedures.

Gail

iVillage Member
Registered: 07-21-1998
Fri, 10-07-2011 - 5:51pm

Not really, but I find it hard to believe that anybody will listen to me.

Cthulu Crochet

Community Leader
Registered: 04-18-2003
Mon, 10-10-2011 - 11:19pm

VBAC at 42?

Gail

iVillage Member
Registered: 07-21-1998
Tue, 10-11-2011 - 6:51pm

If people want to hear it,

Cthulu Crochet

Community Leader
Registered: 04-18-2003
Tue, 10-11-2011 - 7:49pm

GRIN, oh but it's so much more FUN when it's a face to face conversation, not just online.

Gail

iVillage Member
Registered: 07-21-1998
Sat, 10-15-2011 - 9:42am

I don't find that fun. The one real-life encounter was shortly after the VBAC, when I was directly asked about both births, by the pre-teen

Cthulu Crochet

Community Leader
Registered: 04-18-2003
Sun, 10-16-2011 - 4:43pm

Sorry, I was being a bit

Gail

iVillage Member
Registered: 07-21-1998
Mon, 10-17-2011 - 4:46am

The one that really got to me was on Ivillage, when Henci Goer still had a board. Someone went in there saying she was looking for advice but really

Cthulu Crochet

Community Leader
Registered: 04-18-2003
Mon, 10-17-2011 - 11:35am

The difference between being judgemental and being honest is a matter of perception.

Gail

iVillage Member
Registered: 07-21-1998
Tue, 11-08-2011 - 9:57am

You know, this line STILL bugs me

>>The difference between being judgemental and being honest is a matter of perception.

Cthulu Crochet

Community Leader
Registered: 04-18-2003
Tue, 11-08-2011 - 11:03am

I find that when people can't handle honesty, they accuse the person who is being honest of being judgemental.

Gail