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|Tue, 08-13-2013 - 5:04pm|
Hi, it's me again. I thought things were going better with my son and DIL. They were still planning to go to counseling, but that's not as easy and it sounds. Trying to schedule these appointments seems to be almost impossible. I guess the city they live near isn't big enough, I don't know. Anyhow, I just got off the phone with him and I have no one to talk to about this. I wanted to call my husband, but he just started a new job and I don't want to bother him. He'll be on his way home soon. If I did call him right now, it would be only the 3rd time in our 29 year marriage that I have called him at work in tears. I guess I've had a really good life. But, that tells you how upset I am right now. So, my son was telling me about the latest ridiculous fight they got into. They were at a family thing and when they got there (they were still in the car, NO ONE heard him say this) he made a comment about why so and so was there, because he didn't think those certain people would be at this gathering. O.K. I don't know how he said it, but I don't think it was worth the big deal she made about it. She flipped out!!!!!!! She got all pissed off and yelled at him. Then when she was by her relatives they asked what was wrong (yeah, she does this, I even have pictures of her being crabby) she cannot hide when she's mad about something. She told them ALL everything he said, and not only that but she told everybody she'd be spending the night at her mom's again. OMG, OMG, OMG, OMG!!!!!!!!! She is so immature, when is she going to grow up??????? It seemed they were in a little bit better place, she knew they have to put their daughter first and it even seemed like she was coming around about the money issues. Then she does this!!! I love my granddaughter more than anything, but I wish she hadn't been born into this situation. This is not how I wanted to be a grandmother. I bought a bag full of clothes for her today off of the clearance rack, now I can't even look at them. This hurts so bad. I feel like I've done something so wrong in raising my son. Most ways I think we've taught our kids well. Something happened with this son. He doesn't have self confidence to realize he deserved better. Now he's stuck. If they didn't have this baby he could just get out, and I'd say good f****** riddance! I hope someone comes on and reads this I so need someone to talk to. Thanks.