Not a PRUDE, I'm just friggin' tired

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Registered: 06-02-2004
Not a PRUDE, I'm just friggin' tired
Mon, 03-22-2010 - 6:27am

Yah. Just caught DH masturbating to porn as I walked in on him. I just got done nursing and taking care of DD who's been sick for the past few days. He says to me, "You can help me."

::GROAN:: Seriously? DH doesn't help me with the kids, cooking, or housework unless I ASK him. Meanwhile, I run around friggin' tired with a 6mo. DD and 4 yo. DS, NEVER STOPPING. No lunch/breakfast to my self. I'm always taking care of the kids. Meanwhile, DH has time to yank the wank.

If I'm tired, I'm not turned on. If you want to turn me on, try helping me w/o me ASKING.

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Registered: 11-20-2006
Sun, 09-19-2010 - 12:09pm
I Know!
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Tue, 11-30-2010 - 1:49pm



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Registered: 12-15-2010
Wed, 12-15-2010 - 1:09am

I hear you loud and clear honey! Maybe ask him to do it in a place he's less likely to get caught next time so feelings can be saved. And find yourself a good babysitter so you can get some "Me Time" so your not so burnt out. I know it helped when I had my son, you need to take time for yourself. Happy Wife Happy Life

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Registered: 05-17-2001
Tue, 02-15-2011 - 8:53pm

I SO get it!