Wish me luck sil is coming to piano...

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Registered: 01-30-2008
Wish me luck sil is coming to piano...
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Wed, 04-30-2008 - 2:40pm

I am afraid she is going to try and talk to me. This did not go well last time we "talked" she had a nervous breakdown shortly after (that same night) and blames me. I do want to make nice cause I feel bad putting her in the hospital but I was not wrong and am not sorry. In fact I was kind of happy 'cause she went on meds and counseling she so desperately needs. Don't get me wrong my brother is no angel but they are both to blame for their situations not me. And I think she is bipolar (don't know her actual dx).

I just said a whole lot of nothing that prolly only Brandi would understand but just trust me sil hates me and is evil and I feel bad for her.

Wish me luck she keeps it to polite conversation and doesn't start w/ the whole bitching about my family.

It is a nice long story and maybe when it is a slow boring day I can fill in the blanks.



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Registered: 02-11-2008
Wed, 04-30-2008 - 3:13pm

Oh man, Sue, I hope she plays nice today!

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Wed, 04-30-2008 - 3:40pm
That really sucks Sue. I hope she behaves herself.

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Registered: 04-09-2008
Wed, 04-30-2008 - 7:50pm
Hopefully she will behave. Good luck!
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Registered: 01-30-2008
Wed, 04-30-2008 - 8:53pm

She stayed away from me. She took the kids for a walk down the street, then she sat in the other room and I sat in the kitchen, she would not even take the coffee the teacher and I offered her. I even handed her a Family Circle mag to pass the time and she flipped through it quickly and set it down. I guess I have cooties, lol. She never mentioned mom and dad's 50th anniversary so I didn't bring it up.

Kind of funny she was trying to tell her son what he can and can not do. Well he's been going for months and pretty much knows what the deal is. Lessons are at the piano teachers house. He was going to go outside to play, which when it is nice out we tell them to go outback so they don't make noise and bother who ever is on piano (I take my dd's and my nephew every Wed.) She was strictly asking him were he was going and the kids just looked at her like "What is your deal?". The went outside.

I really was trying to be nice and talk but she was distant so I stopped trying. I don't know why I do it...I have been trying for years to be nice and it never works. At least she was not bitching about my brother.