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Awkward Sex?
| Wed, 04-13-2005 - 1:30pm |
Okay this is tmi I but I wanted to know if this has happened to anyone. Dh and I are ttc# 3. I was ovulating the other day and I left Dh a note telling him to wake me up when he got home from the late shift. It said something like "I am ovulating...lets get it on!" LOL Well Dh didn't care and was into it. But...uh..during it got to be REALLY awkward. I could tell he felt uncomfortable and I know I was! Usually we get together for mutual pleasure not because we have an agenda. When conceving our boys it always happened the first time and we didn't have to worry about it. But now we know we are having sex to make a baby, so how do we enjoy ourselves when we know what we are doing? Does that make sense? This has never happened to us before and we have been married for 9 years!





I'd have to say...just completely attack him, lol!!
Yes, that has happended to us as well. I dont tell him anymore when I am ovulating. It just makes it more relaxed for him. He ususally figures it out after a couple days lol, but usually not until after fertile time is over lol!
Lesley
Well since Havyn was not planned the only awkward sex we had was when i was pg and havyn started moving a lot.
I think sometimes you should just do it to do it and let it flow. It might make it easier on yopu both.
As you might have read... DH and I were told it was going to be hard to conceive... SO after my last surgery to get rid of the endometriosis and termination of the pill.. I told my DH that I was ovulating and was the time to try... Well needless to say... I was on a mission and it seemed distant.. My DH however suffered from what we called performance anxiety. There was a lot of pressure on him to perform. We werent successful that month needless to say however he told me that the next time I was ovulating.. just not to tell him.. The next month came, I didnt share with him until after that I was ovulating. 2 weeks later we found out we were pregnant. Good luck to you!
Joni
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