Bad Mother's Day, Not Alone:

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Bad Mother's Day, Not Alone:
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Mon, 05-15-2006 - 4:25pm

DH and I have been arguing non-stop... well since nearly the birth of our twins. It's been worse lately and counseling has not been helpful.

Arguing about division of labor... well he doesn't want any labor so there's nothing to divide. Argue about money, he doesn't want to live within our means and I want to pay down debt. I focus on the family, he focuses on himself first. It's like we live on separate planets or something. I thought we were spending the weekend together, he left to be with friends with me madder than ever.

Mother's day... I think he got cards and gifts but I basically told him to shove them.

Anyway, to those who had a yucky Mother's Day... yahoo me too!

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Mon, 05-15-2006 - 5:33pm
I know how it is to fight a lot with your husbamd. The good thing is with mine, I can send him back to work for a few weeks and cool down.
I hope things get better for you and your dh soon.

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Tue, 05-16-2006 - 8:52am
Hugs to you, sorry your Mothers Day wasn't so pleasant!


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Tue, 05-16-2006 - 12:36pm
I am sorry to hear you and dh have been struggling. I hope it gets better soon.
(((Hugs)))
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Tue, 05-16-2006 - 1:50pm

Ugh... you gals are so sweet. Thanks for your well wishes. Everyone goes through hard times. I hate to just post all the positive stuff and not share when things stink. I like to show both sides! We have great times, but right now is particularly hard.

It helps to know I'm not alone and I hope it helps others to know they aren't either!

Talk to you all soon!