DH gone all weekend......HARD!

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Registered: 03-26-2003
DH gone all weekend......HARD!
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Sun, 10-09-2005 - 3:34pm
Over the weekend my dh went out of town to go dove hunting(poor dove!). Anyway, I was home alone all weekend w/Jacob, which wasn't too bad Friday into Saturday, but today was really bad. He woke up early this morning, 3:30am, crying and would not go back to sleep until around 5:30. I had only been asleep for about 2 1/2 hours when he first woke up. I was so tired. It's so hard without dh around! I really appreciate him when he's not here. I can't wait till he comes home tonight. I miss him and his help! I also did something to my shoulder, cause it's been hurting so bad all day. I was so frustrated w/Jacob today. And then I get so mad at myself for being so frustrated w/him, it just got so overwhelming. Is this normal or is something wrong w/me? Why can't I handle my one year old by myself for a weekend? Anyway, just had to vent, cause I don't have anybody to talk to. My mom had to work all weekend or she would've come over to help me in a heartbeat.

 baby

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Registered: 11-26-2004
Sun, 10-09-2005 - 8:36pm
Nothing's wrong with you! You're just tired and your shoulder is hurting. It's easy to get frustrated when you don't feel well, you have no help,
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Mon, 10-10-2005 - 8:52am
Sorry you had a sad and rough weekend.
It is always hard when your husband leaves for a few days.
Its good that you realize how much he is needed and how much he does when he is home, always makes us love them even more.
Did he kill any little doves :(

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Registered: 03-26-2003
Mon, 10-10-2005 - 4:28pm

Thanks for the hugs. Yeah, they did end up killing one dove, thankfully there weren't that many out when they went! You know it's more for the sport of hunting and doing "man" things, than actually killing anything.

He's back now, and I feel much better. Just had to vent!

 baby

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Tue, 10-11-2005 - 8:26pm
Its always good to vent about these things.
I feel like venting each time my dh goes out for 3 weeks.
It is always hard no matter the time they are away.

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