Fil rant
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| Thu, 08-09-2007 - 9:30am |
Well we live with fil and have since before chey was born. All the sudden fil has gone dumb. He wakes chey up all the time making so much noise. The other day he was going crazy cleaning the house. We told him we are putting chey down for a nap. Well 3 tries later and fil wouldnt stop moving furniture and banging cupboards. Then when miked walked by him fil said "well didnt he sleep last night?" are you Fing stupid. he is 13 months old he has taken at least one nap everyday of his life. what makes today any different? He woke him up this morning to. I am just so frustrated. If yousay anything to him he just says "im not making noise it must not have been me waking him up." "it wasnt me". I am just so mad that all the sudden he has no respect for chey whatsoever. Mikes (df) parents recently split up and mikes mom moved out. Now fil has started drinking and just not caring. He never comes down to tplay with chey. He wakes him up constantly. he yells that the house isnt clean. Well we have our own place downstairs. its basically our own apt with no kitchen. I go upstairs and clean as much as i can. They have a old mean dog. He has bitten me and snapped at chey so chey cannot be upstairs near the dog. When its just me all day how on earth am i suppost to clean everything all day when chey cant even be up there. The funny thing is the reason it gets so dirty is becasue the dog is dieing and he wont get rid of him. the dog poops and pees all over the place. I am not going to clean up the dogs poop and pee when noone wants the dog but him. AAAAhhhh this hole mess is just making me so stressed. We are planning to move out into an apt. But with mike just starting working about a month ago and me not being able to find anything we dont have much money. Im going crazy. sorry for the long rant. if you read this far thank you.


Hugs!
I am soooo sorry your having to deal with this. I hope things change for the better soon..
Jenn
(((Hugs)))
I was in you position last year, before we bought our house. We lived with my IL's between the end of October 2005, until mid-November of last year. It was about the same setup as you have going, except it was not only FIL (who has no respect for anyone but himself most of the time) we were living with, but also MIL, my BIL who was 14 at the time, and my nephew who was 5 when we moved in. My dh and I had the two boys who were 4 and 2 at the time and I was newly pregnant with Elizabeth. My SIL and her dh even moved in at one time for a couple of months, and she is very much like her father. I was going bonkers. I don't know what to tell you except hang in there until you can get out. If he's anything like my FIL he can't be reasoned with and won't change because it's "his house and he can do what he wants". Can you tell I'm still bitter? Hang in there. It won't last forever.
Jayme
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