Glamour Article

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Glamour Article
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Thu, 03-22-2007 - 8:32pm

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In reply to: misty0705
Fri, 03-23-2007 - 4:02pm
I'm one of the SAHM's that got screwed because I gave up my career as my husband wanted me to stay home and have a baby...now the marriage is over and I have to go back to work. So...while not spoken tactfully, the woman does have a point. Women, no matter how secure they think their relationship is, need to take care of their options and have a backup plan. ETA: I think that women who can successfully be SAHM's for the right reasons are amazing people, and I am in no way suggesting that women have to work or agreeing with the condescending and ignorant tone of the glamor article.





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Edited 3/23/2007 4:11 pm ET by dylankadesmommy



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In reply to: misty0705
Fri, 03-23-2007 - 4:25pm

"I'm one of the SAHM's that got screwed because I gave up my career as my husband wanted me to stay home and have a baby"

I have to ask Melanie, didn't you want to stay home? Or did you just do it b/c your husband wanted you too? Just wondering.

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In reply to: misty0705
Fri, 03-23-2007 - 6:52pm

This article really is just disgusting. How self loathing do you have to be to honestly regret using

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In reply to: misty0705
Fri, 03-23-2007 - 6:57pm
Couldn't have said it better!!

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In reply to: misty0705
Fri, 03-23-2007 - 6:58pm

I didn't want to stay home...but he was convinced that I would grow to love it if I just tried it. He really wanted the "traditional" family setting...he'd work, I'd stay at home and raise the kids, etc.

While I have enjoyed my time at home with Dylan, it's really just not for me.






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In reply to: misty0705
Fri, 03-23-2007 - 7:02pm
not to change the subject but OH MY GOSH Dylans eyes look beautiful like that!!! I love that siggy, with the black and white and then those big baby blues! You're so right, he is precious.
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In reply to: misty0705
Fri, 03-23-2007 - 7:20pm
hehe thanks :)





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In reply to: misty0705
Fri, 03-23-2007 - 10:08pm

I have to confess, Kate, I was waiting for your response! Well said.

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Registered: 11-22-2003
In reply to: misty0705
Fri, 03-23-2007 - 10:10pm

Hi, Sandy. I'm Kat, a returning member. Looks like I returned just in time! Honestly, I think you bring up a good point. Having a back-up plan in place and/or savings in case of emergency or the unthinkable is a wise idea. I've certainly been in that position in my marriage before. My dh and I worked through it and it's no longer an issue, our marriage is stronger than ever. But there are those who have been caught off guard by all of a sudden having to become the sole-provider for their children, no matter the reason they're put into that position. I, too, feel that it's important to look at the realistic aspects of both sides of being a SAHM, and you made a valid point for the flip side of the coin. Thank you for the fresh perspective.

~ Kat (whose Express Yourself package is acting up, so no siggy)

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In reply to: misty0705
Fri, 03-23-2007 - 11:11pm
You are right about one thing, that yes, this board has a general viewpoint, because we are all SAHM's and are often faced with the same type of scenarios. Most of us here do have our own money, and have thought of the future. We discuss religion and politics, family matters, and life matters

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