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Wed, 08-09-2006 - 1:10pm
I find out today that the judge who will hear our case is NOT for SAHM's, she thinks all women should work. OK, I thought taking care of children and raising them was a job! Im sooooooooooooooooooooooo livid, I have a 8 month baby and a 3 year old, and she doesnt believe my job is important. She feels that if you're healthy you should be working. SO, this means there's a chance I will not get spousal support AKA alimony. I understand I will have to work, but my intentions were to go back to school so I can get my degree and make more than $9/hr. What is wrong with our justice system?? :( Why doesn't the title SAHM mean anything to anyone? This needs to change. I could just cry. And the fact my husband discussed reconciling with me...............

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Registered: 03-27-2003
In reply to: kate923
Wed, 08-09-2006 - 1:13pm
((((((HUGS))))))) I'm sorry that the judge doesn't understand that this is a full time job with no time off!
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Registered: 12-01-2005
In reply to: kate923
Wed, 08-09-2006 - 1:17pm
{{Hugs Kate}} Do you think your council could ask for a new judge? Or maybe this judge would be happy to hear you are wanting to have support in order to have a better career if she is SO into working women {{Gagging here}} I hate an uptight woman who thinks the only women who work clock in !!! Sorry I need to get off that subject darn Quick!! Anyway I think it is possible to change judges ask your lawyer...and as for reconciliation?? Maybe he should have thought that one over before he unzipped his pants...HMMM??? That

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Registered: 11-13-2003
In reply to: kate923
Wed, 08-09-2006 - 1:20pm
oh Kate, that judge needs to get her head out of her butt! Also, your H wants to reconile with you???? Did he have a bad weekend away with the girlfriend? wth? Kick his butt as well.
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Registered: 10-11-2005
In reply to: kate923
Wed, 08-09-2006 - 1:37pm

I would try to get another judge as well.

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Registered: 03-26-2003
In reply to: kate923
Wed, 08-09-2006 - 3:39pm

Why wouldn't going to school count for working?? That makes absolutely no sense! And what's this about your X trying to reconcile?? I must have missed a post. . .

(((Kate))) I'm still praying every day for you. Things will work out!!

Sofia




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Registered: 04-26-2003
In reply to: kate923
Wed, 08-09-2006 - 6:22pm
(((((Hugs))))) Kate !
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In reply to: kate923
Wed, 08-09-2006 - 6:29pm
HUGS!
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Registered: 10-22-2005
In reply to: kate923
Wed, 08-09-2006 - 6:49pm
Gosh I am so sorry that you got stuck with a judge like that.

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Registered: 03-08-2006
In reply to: kate923
Wed, 08-09-2006 - 9:39pm
Ugh. She probably doesn't have kids, because if she did she most likely wouldn't feel that way.
I'm so sorry for what you're going through... be strong!






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Registered: 07-06-2006
In reply to: kate923
Wed, 08-09-2006 - 9:54pm

Oh (((Kate))) Another punch in the stomach. I am so sorry. Hopefully you can get a different judge, or maybe she won't be too hard on you.

Chrissy

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