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Wed, 08-09-2006 - 1:10pm
I find out today that the judge who will hear our case is NOT for SAHM's, she thinks all women should work. OK, I thought taking care of children and raising them was a job! Im sooooooooooooooooooooooo livid, I have a 8 month baby and a 3 year old, and she doesnt believe my job is important. She feels that if you're healthy you should be working. SO, this means there's a chance I will not get spousal support AKA alimony. I understand I will have to work, but my intentions were to go back to school so I can get my degree and make more than $9/hr. What is wrong with our justice system?? :( Why doesn't the title SAHM mean anything to anyone? This needs to change. I could just cry. And the fact my husband discussed reconciling with me...............

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Registered: 04-04-2006
In reply to: kate923
Wed, 08-09-2006 - 9:59pm

{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{[ HUGS }}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}

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Registered: 05-08-2004
In reply to: kate923
Thu, 08-10-2006 - 1:47am

Kate, unless you live in a really

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Registered: 03-26-2003
In reply to: kate923
Thu, 08-10-2006 - 7:34am

That just doesn't seem right, Kate! Huge hugs to you. Please know you are in my thoughts and prayers!

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Thu, 08-10-2006 - 10:04am

Oooooh Traci! That's a good one!!!! I LIKE that idea!

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In reply to: kate923
Thu, 08-10-2006 - 10:14am

ITA agree with Traci! wonderful idea!!!!!!

(((((hugs))))) sweetie... I'm still praying for ya!!!!!

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Registered: 01-31-2006
In reply to: kate923
Thu, 08-10-2006 - 10:16am

(((HUGS))) Kate. If you can't switch judges maybe you could make the best case possible for going back to school. Have a specific school and career in mind when you go to court, it could sway her. I hope it works out!

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Registered: 01-06-2004
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Thu, 08-10-2006 - 11:23am
Let her know of your intent to go get the degree you need to work cause you were home for so long taking care of the children while he worked.
Let her know that this is just so you can get education to work and help support your family in the future.

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