He has the noo-noo's to ask......

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Registered: 10-07-2003
He has the noo-noo's to ask......
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Sat, 10-09-2004 - 7:15am
What have you done all day? OMG

At 2 AM Boyfriend, aka Jackass for now, and I got into it.

Yes, he works all day. But when he's off....boy is he off. Sits in the basement or sleeps. I'm really ticked because I don't get time off!

My response to his question was look around....do you have food in your belly, clean clothes on your back, clean dishes to eat on, kids taken care of...fed and clean!

He says I don't have to work, we make ok money with our business and God knows nothing would get done here if I did. I volunteer at both my kids schools. Sheesh, like I sit on my A$$ all day.

I was in college and working PT before my 5 yo came along. BF acted like it killed him to help with our oldest DS for a couple hours in the evening. He wasn't supportive at all.

To beat it all, his Mother thinks my job on this earth is to take care of my kids and my man. Of course she still picks out her husbands clothes everyday. I feel if she would have taught her son to fend for himself, he wouldn't be such a baby.

I gave birth to 2 children....not 3. He is the worst of the kids. Who in the hell undresses at the kitchen table???? I have left his clothes lying there to see how long he'd let them stay. OMG after 4 days worth of clothes under the table, I was ready to throw them in the trash. We own a construction company so they were hard and dayum near stuck to the floor. He doesn't care. The house could get so nasty and he doesn't give a crap.

Leaving is not an option. But I feel like a single parent of 3 kids. And marriage....lmao, why would I.

I've tossed and turned the 3 hours I tried to sleep. Geez, does he not know how easy it would have been to smoother him in his sleep?!?! JK

Thanks guys for letting me rant and rave. Great board and boy I'm glad I found it this mornin!

Misti

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Registered: 01-06-2004
Mon, 10-11-2004 - 8:29am
I think one certain perosn needs a smack into reality

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