hi again this might be long

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Registered: 07-05-2003
hi again this might be long
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Sun, 07-22-2007 - 8:00am

well we're still with the ils, dh lost a job and got a better one in the last few weeks. he got a new job the day after he was fired from the crappy one. he loves his new job which is great cause he hated being treated like he was a nobody at the previous one. that and the new one pays better


we still havent found a place yet and now it looks like we'll be here in the fall. i just want to get back to our life.


as for me things are a bit turned upside down, i had surgery yesterday morning to remove my iud and will have to go back again for a tubal. on friday it was discovered after 3 dr visits an ultrasound and an xray that my iud wasnt where it was supposed to be so it had to be taken out with a lap procedure. i wont be able to have any more kids due to what the dr found so the three of us will be discussing when the tubal will be done. i'm sort of sad about it but i know i have my 2 beauiful kids and should be greatful about it. i'm still coming to the realization that this is how its going to be and i cant change it, i'll be ok with it i guess when its totally done. i'll know this week when things will be set up. its just better for the kids that they have a healthy mommy than a future sibling.


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Registered: 07-06-2006
Sun, 07-22-2007 - 5:33pm
(((Lissa)))

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Registered: 11-13-2003
Mon, 07-23-2007 - 2:27am
I'm so sorry Lissa. That must awful, knowing that you don't have control

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Registered: 07-23-2007
Mon, 07-23-2007 - 6:13am
I don't know it this will help any, but this is how my mom always looked at haveing her tubes tided. Someday my children will grow up and get married then I will have the sons I never had. Then God willing they will have children of their own and I will have grandchildren to love. Trust in God and good things will happen.
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Registered: 10-31-2006
Mon, 07-23-2007 - 7:17am

Hugs, Lissa.

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Mon, 07-23-2007 - 8:08am

Hi Lissa,


I'm sorry that your still with the IL's, and also about what happened with your IUD.

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Registered: 05-07-2007
Mon, 07-23-2007 - 10:18am

I am so sorry that things are so hard for you right now.

 

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Registered: 05-22-2007
Mon, 07-23-2007 - 3:19pm

Lissa, you're scaring me with the whole IUD/surgery thing. I just had an IUD put in two months ago!

I'm glad you're recovering well from your surgery, but sorry you're having to have a tubal. I hope all goes well. You're right, it is better to have a healthy momma! But I can understand how it would be difficult to accept all that. I think I'd feel the same way.

Good to see you on the board again. Hopefully you guys will find a house soon. Take care!

Tarra

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