how we look as stay home mom
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how we look as stay home mom
| Thu, 01-18-2007 - 12:42pm |
At first I wasn't aware this is an issue. being stay home mom for a year now,
I recently find this make me think: Because I stay home almost everyday with no guest,
So i wear my comfort clothes, no make up, hair tide up. Sometimes I feel I am not that
confident woman as I saw myself years ago. I am not a person that judge 100% on the look or materials for confident, but now slowly I found it somehow do effect me when I am like that everyday now. Slowly eating me up. When I go out, I am all neat; I feel good about myself.
But what's the point of dressing up when only me and my daughter at home? and with the housework, cleaning...
Do you aware of this?
Bella

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I hope you feel better. You might also find a playgroup locally. It gives motivation to get out and dressed and be around other SAHM's. It is fun and you visit with some moms who feel the way you do.
Moya
I did it! Today I spend some little time putting make up and wear my outing clothes.
Yes, I felt more awake and much better. It's just hard to accept why I have lipstick on
my cup at home. But anyways, we end up out to the mall just because I really felt so alive.
Dh came home saw me and DD so happy, I guess because i am happy all day and also effect DD too. Dh suddenly looked at my hair for a while and took me it look good to have my hair that way and he told me I was pretty. I really think this help my confident too.
Later, I also put mask on and have a foot spa section, really enjoy myself. Felt so worth it. It just another day but how we spent make a great different.
Thanks for your advice. I can see I am making the transition.
Bella
I totally understand.
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