I have the best Dh!!!!!!!

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Registered: 11-18-2004
I have the best Dh!!!!!!!
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Wed, 01-19-2005 - 9:45am

Those of you who know about the fight between me in my bro (post=I am very sad) will be impressed. My DH called my bro yesterday evening while I was out. He told my bro he wanted to say he was sorry. I dont think he should be sorry. He didnt do anything wrong. My bro told him that he too was sorry, very very sorry and was currently writting letter to us apologizing. He also said he called his gfriend (X) and she hung up on him saying she wasnt playing the he said she said crap. He said he was feeling real bad. I am still upset bad but feel better that he realizes he was wrong. Im not going to throw it in his face or anything. I am just use to him never taking responsibilities for anything he does. I feel uncomfortable when I think about being face to face with him soon. I am sure he will be here friday. My house is on the way to his meeting spot to give his son to the mom for the weekend. He usually stops on the way and then on his way back. I dont know what to say.

I am very proud of my DH. All my friends can't believe he didnt knock my bro out. My DH always has his senses. I have only seen him mad 1 time out of 9 yrs. He's laid back and a joker. He's great and he earned brownie points for this. I am torn about it all still but impressed with Dh just the same. Eileen

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Registered: 04-06-2003
Wed, 01-19-2005 - 12:37pm

I am so glad that things are better for you!


Maybe you should just completely shock him (your brother) when you see him and give him a great big hug... always does wonders :o)


 

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Registered: 11-26-2004
Wed, 01-19-2005 - 12:43pm
Eileen, you are a lucky lady. What a nice dh! I hope you and your bro can start to build a new different kind of relationship. It won't happen over night, but if you open your heart and try to let some old memories go, it can happen! Good luck!
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Registered: 01-06-2004
Wed, 01-19-2005 - 1:39pm
That is great that things are going to be better with you and your brother.
Good for your dh to make things right between them both, even if he was not in the wrong. It takes a man to step up and do what is right to do.
Good luck in the future with your brother.





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