Im back finally

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Wed, 12-20-2006 - 8:43pm

Ok, first let me tell you the magistrate didnt make a decision today, he will in the next 2 days about the restraining order. He said it was very close and he needed to think about it. He is concerned about the distress this has caused Becky, and he has to consider it although no threats or physical violence occured.
It was by far the hardest day of my life, I can't describe the agony and pain I felt. I actually broke down when we first got there and started to cry. Then we took a 5 minutes break and I cried again, I just couldnt help it, I tried to keep it together. The magistrate asked her two times if she would like to dismiss the case and she refused, she said shes really afraid of me.
We were in the court room for 3 hours going through cross-examination and testimonies. my lawyer was brutal to Becky, but Beckys lawyer wasn't bad towards me, which I was glad about. They had to call my husband to come in to testify against me, which wasnt bad because he did tell the truth and it helped me a little bit. Of course he never looked me in the eyes, looked down the whole time. Becky wouldnt look at me either, she glanced one time.
He was only in he room for about 10 minutes and left. Anyway, Let me just say what a mistake Mike has made. The girl that faced me today just isnt worth it, she doesnt have one ounce of class about her and she her attitude makes her very unattractive. I just can't believe he would go to her, at least he could've picked someone a little better than me or SOMEthing or maybe someone that at least was nice because she just doesnt seem like a very nice person. Im in awe, really. SHe had on this jean skirt,thick white nylons and these brown shoes. And she wore her sunglasses on her head the whole time.
Everything just clicked in me today, like wow, Mike has NO standards or morals. My lawyer made a comment to me that Mike needs to get rid of her b/c she's trouble. Shes very high maintenance, but in a cheap way, ya know?? That was my day, Im praying every second she doesnt get this, but I will know in the next 2 days, maybe tomorrow.

I wanted to add that I wont be accepted into nursing school or be able to get a job with a restraining order against me. So, If she does get it, I have to appeal it and its another court date...I hope it doesnt come to this.




Edited 12/20/2006 8:54 pm ET by kate923

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Registered: 10-13-2002
In reply to: kate923
Thu, 12-21-2006 - 10:05am

Hi Kate.....I was thinking EVERYTHING Lesley said....so I am not gonna type that part....


I have a question too....Did the judge know that you have applyed for nursing school, and cannot be admitted with a restraining order???.......I would think that that would answer the question, for him as to weather you would "bother her in any way???"........I cannot believe he has to think about this...geeze..


What's he using for brains, MUSH!!!!!!!


This has aggravated me so bad...MY HEAD HURTS!!!!!!

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Registered: 03-26-2003
In reply to: kate923
Thu, 12-21-2006 - 10:06am

WHAT??!! The magistrate "is concerned about the distress this has caused Becky, and he has to consider it although no threats or physical violence occured." Is he kidding?! Stress it has caused BECKY?? What about YOU??!! I am in total shock! Here this woman waltzes into your life and runs off with your husband, and they're concerned about HER stress? She must have a he77 of an attorney!

Oh Kate, I am sooooooooo sorry! I am praying so hard for you! You are the strongest person I know. I just have so much admiration for your integrity and motivation and high moral standards. You're amazing. Mike lost out on a gem, and it's HIS LOSS!

Major hugs to you, and prayers going up that the magistrate comes to a decision in your favor. You sure don't need this, especially before Christmas!

CYE

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Registered: 08-02-2006
In reply to: kate923
Thu, 12-21-2006 - 12:13pm

((((HUGS)))) Kate!!

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