Introduce my self

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Registered: 09-16-2005
Introduce my self
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Sat, 09-17-2005 - 8:32pm
Hi, I'm a newbie,I'm a stayhome mom for as long as I can, My son is 1 year,I'm married to a great man, working 3 jobs and now 2 to be able to support us, while I stay home with my son, I hardly ever see him, he works day in day out he's got 3 or 5 hrs. in between jobs sometimes and he uses them to sleep. My son is very active, very fuzzy and whiney it can be very frustating and overwhelming, he's always clinging to my legs, it's hard sometimes b/c i don't get to do what i need in the house. Have to wait for him to take a nap, but once he does that, I want that time for me. It's great to find a message forum for stay home moms,it's good to be here, I don't have much friends, at least not like before, all my old friends are single and like to party., once married it slow down, once pregnant and now with my son they slowly stopped calling or coming over,I would invite them to eat dinner on weekends and they wouldn't show up at all. so now I don't see them at all; it's hard they are in a completely different environment and I'm always at home with my son or running errands or shopping and that's all, so we won't have nothing in common to talk about, so I understand them,they probably think i'm boring now,but it gets lonely without friends. But I do enjoy my son a lot. but sometimes I need a break even if it's just an hour.
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In reply to: alidou
Sun, 09-18-2005 - 12:33am
Hi and welcome to the board! What's your name? I'm Amber sahm to Elise, Olivia, and our
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In reply to: alidou
Sun, 09-18-2005 - 4:15pm
Hi, good afternoon, My Name is Alicia sahm to Devin 1 year old, I being married for 2 years, but have known each other or being together for 6 years, We met at college. And we live in Texas. And Nice meeting you.
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In reply to: alidou
Mon, 09-19-2005 - 12:52am

Hi, Welcome to the board! I am so glad you found us. I want to give Big (((HUGS))) to you for what you are going through. I sometimes know how you feel. I only have 3 friends and 2 I have no time for (except maybe a phone call now and then) and the other one is my DH. I guess you can say he is my best friend. I say if your friends that are single have not called you since you have become a mommy then they are not true friends. Just wait, I am sure the moment one of them becomes pregnant you will be getting a phone call. But don't let it bother you much. Consider yourself very lucky, you have your family. And we are here for you too. I am Olivia, married to Steban for 10 years, SAHM for almost 2 years to Aston (10 months), Lexus (9) and Mercedes (12). We live in Texas. We have a great group of ladies here whenever you need to chat.

Olivia

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Registered: 09-21-2004
In reply to: alidou
Mon, 09-19-2005 - 9:06am

Welcome to the board Alicia, we are here when you need us. We can all relate in some part to what you say.


I am Traci Sahm/homeschooling mom of two boys ages eight and three with one on the way. Married to my Dh for nine years, living happily in Texas :)

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In reply to: alidou
Mon, 09-19-2005 - 7:03pm
Thank you for your welcome,and yes true, they are not true friends.
And Nice Meeting you iolivia1972. My son is 1 year old, and have been married for 2 yrs. and being together for 6 and we live in Texas.
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