Might be P -PleaseNeed advice :*(

iVillage Member
Registered: 09-16-2005
Might be P -PleaseNeed advice :*(
3
Sun, 10-30-2005 - 1:58am

I'm crying my eyes out here,I suspect that i might be pregnant,and I really don't want this right now,I have my son he just turn 1, it would be way to soon to have another, I'm scared and unprepared I want it another a least for another 3,4 years from now and now this,completey unplanned, I don't want to be pregnant,(my DH feels the same way) I haven't even taken a PT, Cause i'm scared that I might be, I don't want this, is too soon for me...and I'm so confused with my cycle, that it makes it even worse, I really don't remember. I was in the pill...I do remember that I got my mestruation in the week of the 22 on august, that's when I was thinking of getting off the pill, 'cause it would make me sick if I took the pill next day after forgetting; so then I started the pill after mestruation and then I just didn't took them anymore, and then on the week of the 29 on august I had sex with my DH, and the morning after I notice that I started bleeding again(can't remember for how many days)I'm guessing cause of what I did with the pills, and I don't remember when I had my mestruation in September, I don't remember at all, and now this, I really don't want this right now, I want it this until later later, right now I was very happy with just my one year old son, I love him to death, I don't feel ...
:*( (sorry), I don't feel ready at all, it way too soon. I love to be with my son; we always by ourselves my DH is always working, so I don't know if I'll be able to handle 2,so close together.Please somebody that can give me some advice or some comfort words I really need it.

Alicia SAHM to one year old Devin

Photobucket - Video and Image Hosting  
iVillage Member
Registered: 09-21-2004
Sun, 10-30-2005 - 2:34pm

I am sorry you are having a hard time. My only advice would be to take a test. You could be worrying yourself for no reason. If the test is postitive then you will at least have something to go on.


Traci

Image hosting by Photobucket
iVillage Member
Registered: 11-08-2004
Sun, 10-30-2005 - 9:43pm
I agree, take a test. You may be upsetting yourself for no reason. If you are pg, it will all work out. I always feel like things happen for a reason. I got pg with my 2nd much earlier than I anticpated (we were sort of trying but it took soooo long with my 1st and only 1 time with my 2nd : ) I was totally freaked out, but now I can't imagine it any other way. I'm just so happy things worked out the way they did. I love having my kids close in age.
Take the test so you know for sure. Let us know how it goes...and remember, we're all here for you.
Wendy
iVillage Member
Registered: 11-26-2004
Sun, 10-30-2005 - 10:35pm
I agree, take a test so you'll know for sure. My oldest was 13 mos when I got pg with my 2nd. They are 3 days shy of 22 mos apart and they are best friends! We're here for you to lean on emotionally. ((Hugs))
Image hosted by Photobucket.com







Lilypie First Birthday tickers