Need Advice/Support - Personal.

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Registered: 05-03-2004
Need Advice/Support - Personal.
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Thu, 06-17-2004 - 8:21pm
Hi Everyone!

HELP!!!!!!!!!!! I have NO libido. ZIP! ZILCH! NONE! I could care less if I ever have sex again. I don't even like to be touched or cuddled or even kissed. Is something wrong with me?? It is becoming a HUGE problem with my husband. He doesn't understand why I feel the way that I do and so he thinks that I don't love him anymore. That couldn't be any further from the truth. I Love him with all of my heart. He is a wonderful husband and a loving daddy. I don't know what I would do without him.

Any advice or support would be greatly appreciated.

TIA

Beth

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Registered: 06-11-2004
Mon, 06-21-2004 - 11:32am
Hi again~

I hope some of the advice you've gotten here has helped. I think we all go thru ups and downs being a mother and sometimes we can be pretty hard on ourselves. In answer to your question, no my husband has never actually said he would leave me if we didn't have sex more, but I know he does feel rejected and unattractive if I'm not interested. Deep down I think he would end up having an affair if I didn't make an effort...and I didn't want it to come to that. Everything else in our marriage is good so I didn't want to throw it away over this issue. Again, I don't know what the answer is. I just hope things get better for you : )

Gwen

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