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| Mon, 08-01-2005 - 9:59am |
I have a friend, whom I met about 3 months ago. We get along great, our kids like each other too.
The problem is, her husband. I dont think he likes me much.
The other day he wanted my husband to go car looking with him. I told Chris that I thought it was silly to go look at a car he will not ever get. This guy likes to look at cars that he will get in 4 years from now. I just think it is silly.
Well, he went home and told my friend (his wife) that I was saying to Chris that I thought he was stupid for doing it, but just not saying it directly to him. Which is not true. I dont care what he does with his time, but to drag my husband out to do it when he could be home with his kids for the short time he is home was silly.
Well, I told her what was going on because he went home and was mad at me. I said I was sorry if he felt that way and that it was not how I meant things that day.
So we go over their home yesterday and ate pizza and then played a game. We were playing phase 10. Well, he had his cards dowm in a run of 6 a wild and a 7 and then another wild. But he had it going backwards. It bugged me so I went to change it to the correct way and he got pissed off at me and threw his cards down and walked away.
Now, after all that rambling, what should I do?
I like this women and we get a long, but her husband and I dont.
I just dont know what to do about this.
The problem is, her husband. I dont think he likes me much.
The other day he wanted my husband to go car looking with him. I told Chris that I thought it was silly to go look at a car he will not ever get. This guy likes to look at cars that he will get in 4 years from now. I just think it is silly.
Well, he went home and told my friend (his wife) that I was saying to Chris that I thought he was stupid for doing it, but just not saying it directly to him. Which is not true. I dont care what he does with his time, but to drag my husband out to do it when he could be home with his kids for the short time he is home was silly.
Well, I told her what was going on because he went home and was mad at me. I said I was sorry if he felt that way and that it was not how I meant things that day.
So we go over their home yesterday and ate pizza and then played a game. We were playing phase 10. Well, he had his cards dowm in a run of 6 a wild and a 7 and then another wild. But he had it going backwards. It bugged me so I went to change it to the correct way and he got pissed off at me and threw his cards down and walked away.
Now, after all that rambling, what should I do?
I like this women and we get a long, but her husband and I dont.
I just dont know what to do about this.




Yikes, Mel he doesn't sound too pleasant. You know most of the women I know and talk with, I have never met their husbands. I don't have to like or even get to know their husbands to be friends with them. It would be nice to have a couple that my Dh and I get along with but it is not a requirement. If it were me I would just tell the friend that you and her Dh rub eachother the wrong way and it would be best if the both of you see just eachother when possible.
Good luck! I hope you can keep your friendship.
I really dont want things to be like this.