Need your opinion and advice maybe tmi

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Registered: 11-05-2004
Need your opinion and advice maybe tmi
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Wed, 07-12-2006 - 4:36pm
OK,
My 3.5 year old son has been VERY preoccupied with his "private"area. He keeps talking about privates, touching himself and touching others there. He has like tried to grab me there and I try not to make a big deal about it. He even grabbed my mom there yesterday! Im trying not to make it a big deal, just tell him that he is not allowed to touch others there and no one is allowed to touch him there. And if that happens, come tell me right away because it's not right. Is it his age? He has never acted this way before. He even tried to touch the baby there, then he laughs and says" I got his privates". I asked him who taught him this and he tells me his cousin touched him there. I said well, what did your cousin do--and he showed me, and said he touched him there. I talked to my sister and asked what was going on and she said she didnt know, and would ask her son. My nephews are soo preoccupied with their privates and butts, thats all they talk about! I know, it's gross. I just need some opionions and advice on how to deal with this! thanks

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Registered: 01-06-2004
Wed, 07-12-2006 - 6:14pm
Chrissy,

I am not saying, by no means, that you said it is okay.
I just think that is what people are concerned about, not the playing with themselves but doing it to tohers :)

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