Needing some good advice
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Needing some good advice
| Fri, 10-08-2004 - 2:35pm |
Im a 20 year old mother. I have a 1 1/2 year old son, and one on the way. I just broke up with my boyfriend who cant seem to control his temper. So i moved with my mom who i know loves and wants the best for me, but i think chooses wrong decisions for me at really bad times. My boyfriend, is not abusive, but he is very verbal. I am thinking of trying to work things out with him, but mabey he needs Anger Managment classes. My mother wants me to put the baby up for adoption. I really dont think i can do that. She doesnt want me to go back to my boyfriend, and she says if i do she will not listen to anymore problems that we would have, and she wont take me in again. For me to deal with it on my own.right now i dont have a job, and i was planning to go back to school in January. I dont know what to do right now, i dont know where to live, and i dont know much of anything right now. So Please if you have any advice, i need it.

I don't have much advice, cause I do belive this is your choice and one you will have to live with all of your life.
I do want to say to think very hard before you decide what to do with the baby. This is one you are making for your family, and that child.
I do not think you should go back to a man that is so abusive, weather it be physically or mentally. It is not good for you or your children. And it is your job to keep your children from harm of any kind.
I want to wish you much luck on your choices and please feel free to post here about anything you need.