Neighborhood Kids

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Registered: 03-27-2003
Neighborhood Kids
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Wed, 08-24-2005 - 10:45am

Hi All,

This is my first time posting on this board. I am having a problem that I just can't figure out the answer to, so I thought that I would reach out!

My family (DH, 4 year old dd and 15 month old dd) recently moved into a very kid-friendly cul-de-sac. Our house has become quite popular, and the other neighborhood kids really love come over. I am having trouble figuring out what limits, if any, to set on this. A couple of the children are a real handful, and having them over really stresses me out. Having the kids over doesn't necessarily free up my time either because my 15 month old wants to hang out with them, but I need to constantly watch her--especially if they decide to play outside. I start feeling really resentful when I am stuck outside watching a bunch of kids that aren't mine when I have a ton of chores inside that need doing! I know it is good for my daughters to have this kind of social interaction. So I guess my question is, do you have any advice on what types of limits to set, or should I just paste a smile on my face and be a great host mom?

TIA,

Laura.

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Registered: 01-06-2004
Wed, 08-24-2005 - 11:50am
Let the kids know that when they are over, they are to behave.
Then try talking to the parents about how much time they spend over your home and see about limiting it.
Sometimes, these kids' parents are not around or they send them to someones home, like yours, to spend their time there so they can geta

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Registered: 08-05-2004
Wed, 08-24-2005 - 10:06pm

Laura, do you live in my neighborhood?