The neighbors...

iVillage Member
Registered: 08-05-2004
The neighbors...
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Fri, 07-07-2006 - 1:51pm

My next door neighbor with the 2 girls is getting a divorce and her dh moved out and away over last weekend.

iVillage Member
Registered: 07-27-2001
Fri, 07-07-2006 - 2:49pm

I think if I were in your shoes I would fix a meal or cookies or something and take them over.

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Registered: 03-08-2006
Fri, 07-07-2006 - 3:57pm
I think a nice basket of food would be a really thoughtful gesture, considering! It's really sweet of you to even think about it...imagine how much she will appreciate the help!













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Registered: 03-14-2005
Fri, 07-07-2006 - 4:33pm
I think maybe some cookies would be nice... and maybe a card to tell her that you know things have been stressful and you hope they get better. I think she would appreciate the gesture.









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Registered: 08-05-2004
Sat, 07-08-2006 - 11:16am
Never mind!
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Registered: 01-06-2004
Sat, 07-08-2006 - 2:16pm
I say go over and ask her if she needs anything. No other way to do it. If nothing she will say so and maybe she just is too shy or embarrassed to ask for help and would love to have so.
If not for her, for those girls.

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Registered: 08-30-2004
Sat, 07-08-2006 - 9:39pm
wow what a sad position that is, i think it would very nice of you to help out by making a meal for them...she at least talked to you and kuddos for you not getting all up into the drama...you sound like a good person and mabye thats just something she might need in her life...maybe talk to her and help her get out of the rut she is in...could it possibly be that she has depression and thats why things are going in the direction it has turned..good luck!!


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Registered: 03-06-2006
Sun, 07-09-2006 - 12:11pm

How old are the girls? Maybe the reason why she never
goes outside her house is becouse the husband is
controlling or abusive or whatever. Maybe you can
get some information out of the girls. They are
most likely not going to want to say much at first
but they will eventually talk but I know that is
kind of a crappy way to go about finding out what
is going on. Goodluck.

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Registered: 08-05-2004
Sun, 07-09-2006 - 1:33pm

No.

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Registered: 01-06-2004
Sun, 07-09-2006 - 4:25pm
Did you do anyhting about it?
Just wondering how things are with the neighbor.

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