New SAHM Question - Mom's Clubs?
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New SAHM Question - Mom's Clubs?
| Mon, 10-25-2004 - 11:48pm |
Okay - I have been a SAHM for about one week now :-) and I have a really basic question. How do you join a mom's group? How do I find women with young babies like me? I am 35 years old and quit my job as an attorney to stay home with our daughter, so all of my girlfriends are people I met through work. Are these groups formal organizations or are they just groups of friends? (or both?) I feel so silly asking, but I really don't know anything about this, and I'm afraid that if I don't find some friends who I can meet during the day I may get a little stir crazy! Thanks so much for any practical advice about this! One other question -- how do you find a group of women that you like? I feel almost like I'm starting to date again! I want to join up with a group of women, but would like to find some that I have similar interests, values, etc. Maybe I should try a personals ad! :-) "SAHM in search of same . . ."
Tina
Tina

Sorry, I can't answer your question, as I have never personally had to look for a mom club. I had a few recommended to me by my sil when i was pregnant, but thankfully, I had a few close friends home with little ones at the same time as me..and to be honest, I hardley have the time to see them!!
I would suggest contacting your local hospital or community center, maybe they have ideas for you in your area. Best of luck!!!
My closest friends, however, have come from an informal playgroup in a nearby neighborhood. We would meet at someone's house each Wednesday from 9:30-11:30 - the hostess would put out coffee and bagels and snacks for the kids, and the moms would just chat while the kids played. To hook up with one of these kinds of playgroups, you will just have to get out and meet other women who love near you. The best way to do this is to go to the park, go to storytime at the library, join a Gymboree or Kindermusik class - anything that you can do to be near other stay at home moms. Strike up converstions whenever you can - ask them if they are part of a playgroup and if you could start coming too. I found out about my playgroup sitting next to a woman at an Open House for a Mother's Morning Out program.
If you do get out and meet other women but still can't find a playgroup, consider starting one youself in your own neighborhood. It's not hard to do, and it will give you a great chance to get to know your neighbors better.
Whatever you do - you MUST get out there and meet other stay at home moms or you will lose your mind. You MUST have a support group in this crazy new life that you have started! Good luck!
Paige
One other suggestion is to check web sites like MSN Groups and Yahoo Groups. Many local moms' clubs use these web sites to communicate with each other. I think most of them have a search feature, so you could search for the city where you live. Good luck!
Hi Tina,
Just wanted to let you know that I belong to an organization called MOMS club (moms offering moms support).