ok,this is wierd.............

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Registered: 11-05-2004
ok,this is wierd.............
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Mon, 06-27-2005 - 11:55am

For those who read my post about me being mad at my dh.....

OK, We both agreed that both of us have been acting wierd, with my preg. hormones and his stress from work..anyway, He said hes self conscious at the pool because he feels overweight, and he wasn't comfortable, so he didnt have a good time. Ok, I understand that. So, I was getting ready for the gym and was getting Dom ready and he tells me I can leave Dom home with him(hes working at home today), so I can workout. This never happens because hes VERY busy when he works here. So I was like kool! I come home from the gym, and all the dishes were done and kitchen clean....OK, I think he feels bad! But,I'm glad he does, because he made me feel bad yesterday. I didnt mean he never does stuff with Dom, he really does, and has been great while I've been pregnant, it was just yesterday at the damn pool, we'll never go there again, lol!

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Mon, 06-27-2005 - 12:00pm

Ooh I bet that was nice! Time to yourself and clean dishes?! That's great that he admitted what the problem was and it's an understandable one. I'm glad things are going smoothly again! Pesky darn hormones,lol! ;)




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Mon, 06-27-2005 - 12:25pm

I read this post, then went to read what other post you were talking about.


You know my Dh is just like that at the pool! He was always a little chunky as a kid and he is just so self-consious now as an adult. He cannot just let go and have fun at the pool because he thinks everyone is just sitting around judging him.


We just bought a pool and I am hoping it will give him some better memories, and time to let go and just play with the kids.

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Mon, 06-27-2005 - 3:09pm

Awww Kate, That was sweet what dh did. See if men would just open up to begin with then we would know what is bothering them.

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Mon, 06-27-2005 - 8:41pm
That is great that he has done so much for you today with the home and with Dom.
Hope this is a daily thing from now on :)
At least you know now why he didnt want to be in the pool.

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