OT- Bad Anniversary

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Registered: 06-25-2003
OT- Bad Anniversary
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Thu, 07-01-2004 - 4:11pm
Hi,

I know this is kind of off-topic...but I feel so bummed. Today is our 4th wedding anniversary and everything seems to be in such bad shape (concerning our relationship). I don't quite know why. I'm 9months prego and my almost 3 year has been having some really bad days lately so I know that is causing stress. But I guess I don't know what to do about it. My DH is mad and doesn't want to talk about anything (which is unusual) so maybe he's just tired and stressed about work. I just feel bad that today has to be such a bad day...it's supposed to be a good day of memories.

This morning he told me how he felt about the last 4 years and he was so depressed about it all which is kind of unusual for him. He's pessimistic in general but not usually depressed.

I thought about making a nice dinner but somehow that seems so insignificant when things seems so bad. I tried to wake him up with a nice back rub this morning but he just got frustrated cause our 3 year was being so whiny which obviously is a romance-kill.

Anyway, I guess I need to share. Sorry to be so sad.

jen

Lilypie 1st Birthday Ticker
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Registered: 01-10-2004
Thu, 07-01-2004 - 4:36pm
AWW I feel bad for you Jen.Your day sounds like our 2year anniversary,which was this April.We were fighting about something,I don't even remember what it was,now,and we didn't speak to each other all day.It was awful to spend our anniversary that way.I felt so bad about it that I went into the bathroom and cried.I know how you feel.

Hope things get better for you!

Hugs,Heather
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Registered: 05-08-2004
Thu, 07-01-2004 - 4:58pm
So sorry your having a bad day Jen. Could you maybe get a last minute babysitter or have a relative take 3 year old for a while then maybe have a dinner with you and DH? Sorry again, wish we could help.

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