Really need your imput, PLEASE!! ,m
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Really need your imput, PLEASE!! ,m
| Fri, 06-25-2004 - 10:18am |
ok, here is my situation short version,,, my dh and I have been married for 10 years, we get along, and have NEVER lied to each other ever before!! We have a great house, a great marriage and 3 great girls!!! The other day he had to go out of town for a school for his work,, he went with 2 other huys,, it was a give in that he would go out that night to have a few drinks!!!!


But I know how you feel, to be lied to by your husband is hurtful, no matter how many times it has been done or about what.
If you have time, sit down and dicuss it a little more then what you have so far.
Good luck and hugs :)
So sorry your feeling hurt Kim.
If it was me in your situation, I would sit DH down for a long talk.
I know If it were me I would tell my Dh that because he lied it kind of makes me suspicious. Just curious but are you suspicious of something? Do either of you go out for "girls or "boys" nights out, if it is not something you both ever do, maybe the lie just made it ten times worse for you than it actually would be.
Maybe if this is something he rarely does, he could have just got caught up in talking and paling around with other guys. Maybe he feels guilty because he had fun, and you were at home. No one can ever truly know what was in someone else's mind, but tell him how very hurt you were by his lying.
Sorry I don't have anything better than that. Maybe someone is a BTDT on here and can help.
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If I was in your shoes, I would pick a time when its quiet and you are both calm. I'd say something like "I don't care what you did the other night. I asked because we usually tell each other everything. I'm sorry if I seemed like I was nagging or being nosy. I wish you didn't feel the need to lie. We've never lied to each other and shouldn't start now." I wouldn't say anything else about it, unless he wants to talk.