This is really, really wrong....

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Registered: 11-13-2003
This is really, really wrong....
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Mon, 07-18-2005 - 4:06am

why is there not a *issed off emoticion when you need it????

my 14yr old kind-of-cousin is pregnant by her 21yr old boyfriend.....

Sorry to rant, but I REALLY need to vent. I was just at my grandparents house for the night. My dad's sister (my aunt) is married to a man who is older than she is. He has 2 grown girls, who have kids of their own. One of them was a drug addict, and really off her rocker for years. She had 3 girls….all different fathers. It got to the point that my aunt and her husband (the babies grandfather), went to court, and took the kids in, and raised them for years. The youngest was born drug addicted, and had to sleep on a special monitored pad, because her heart would stop all the time.

This lady went through a 5 week drug rehab program, and got custody of her kids again a few years ago. Needless to say, she’s still a nut.

Her middle girl, was 12, she allowed her 19yr old boyfriend to move in with them!!!! This was 2 years ago. Now, the girl is 14, and pregnant, the dad-to – be (who left her recently) is now 21!!!!!!

First and foremost…the mom should be charged with something> That age range was statutory rape!!!!!! It still is!!!!!

The guy should be in jail!!!! I feel absolutly disgusted.

I feel so sorry for this young girl, who believes that he will come back once the baby is born, and she can handle it. I feel sorry for my “cousin” who is screwed up” and messed up her kids lives more than she messed up her own.

Mostly, I feel for my Aunt and Uncle who took the kids in, and raised them, lovingly for years, and fought the courts when they said the “mother” could have them back because she finished her 5 week rehab.

I just feel ill. Its really sooo gross.

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Mon, 07-18-2005 - 6:33am

Oh my gosh, Lesley. That is one messed up little girl. I feel so sad for her. What was her mother thinking, letting the bf move in with them? I will say many prayers for her. Maybe, if she sees an OB/GYN, they will be able to get her connected with some sort of teen pregnancy counseling? I will pray for her and her baby. Many hugs to you - I can see how frustrated and sad you are.

Hugs,
Wendy

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Mon, 07-18-2005 - 9:52am
I would be mad as well.
I am sorry for your cousin. I wish she could see the future and what a child does and needs. It wont be easy, but hopefully she will have a great support group for her.
He should be in jail and I hope someone does something about it. He needs to be punished for being such a sick person.
I hope all this turns out to be ok.
(((((((((((hugs)))))))))))

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Registered: 03-27-2003
Mon, 07-18-2005 - 10:46am

Lesley,


where is the "go directly to jail" card when you need it.

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Registered: 04-08-2005
Mon, 07-18-2005 - 1:09pm

That is so WRONG and gross! I would be very ticked off as well. ((((HUGS)))) to you and your cousin. I will keep them in my prayers.

Olivia

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Registered: 11-05-2004
Mon, 07-18-2005 - 1:11pm
Leslie,
that is soo bad...shes only 14 and will have a baby, how sad. I hope everything works out ok.