This is so mean....
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This is so mean....
| Sat, 09-02-2006 - 4:43pm |
Sometimes Chris can make me so mad.....
I have been having very bad vision problems since I had Nicholas. I see a white blur each time I look down or to the sides. I also have had many migraines since having him. Ones that ruin my vision for hours and then leaves me with a pounding head for days. I have had them since I was pregnant with Andrew, but never this many in such a short period of time.
What has made me mad is that I have suggested that I might need my prescription for my glasses renewed or have glasses for full time wear to help.... my husband said I should go to the neurologist.
BUT he said I have to wait and save the money to do it, and that I should have done this a long time ago because I should have known I would have to do this.
Now, I dont know the future, never claimed to know. So how should I have known to save money to do this months ago? Not like I was hoping to feel this bad or have something wrong with me.
I do not want to keep getting these headaches each week or maybe even get worse and have something wrong with me.....
Anyways, just needed to vent. Just crying did not help (somehting I have not done ina
I have been having very bad vision problems since I had Nicholas. I see a white blur each time I look down or to the sides. I also have had many migraines since having him. Ones that ruin my vision for hours and then leaves me with a pounding head for days. I have had them since I was pregnant with Andrew, but never this many in such a short period of time.
What has made me mad is that I have suggested that I might need my prescription for my glasses renewed or have glasses for full time wear to help.... my husband said I should go to the neurologist.
BUT he said I have to wait and save the money to do it, and that I should have done this a long time ago because I should have known I would have to do this.
Now, I dont know the future, never claimed to know. So how should I have known to save money to do this months ago? Not like I was hoping to feel this bad or have something wrong with me.
I do not want to keep getting these headaches each week or maybe even get worse and have something wrong with me.....
Anyways, just needed to vent. Just crying did not help (somehting I have not done ina


I am so sorry that you are having migraines.
Just go to the dr. and worry about the bills when they come. Thats what I do,LOL! But seriously, you shouldn't have to suffer, or risk losing your eyesight.
Chrissy
(((HUGS))) Mel!! I'm so sorry Chris hurt you with his words and attitude. I feel for you. Maybe he didn't mean to?? In my house it's the opposite usually. Sometimes I say things--or am just too blunt--and I hurt Michael without meaning to. He doesn't admit it (that macho thing), but I can tell by the look in his eyes and how he acts. Maybe if you tell Chris the affect his words had on you, he'll see the error of his ways.
As far as your headaches/visual problems, you probably do need a workup by a neurologist and/or an ophthalmologist. But if you can't afford the specialty visit, and your insurance doesn't cover it, you can go to your family practitioner (regular primary care doctor) and let him/her examine you and determine where to go from there. That would be a good first step for you. Please go have it checked out. I'm sure it's probably hormone-related because of having Nicholas (hormones can give you migraines, and migraines give you vision problems often). But just to be on the safe side, please do make an appointment, whether your DH gives his consent or not. Your health is first and foremost.
I'll say a prayer for you, and I'm sending you hugs,
Sofia
I am going to the dr and if I have to give up something for me and spend $20 to see the dr, I am.
If something happens to me, its not just me who will suffer, it will be my kids too.