Soo sad

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Registered: 11-05-2004
Soo sad
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Sat, 09-02-2006 - 10:52pm
Well, I had an appt. with my lawyer to file for divorce last week and I cancelled. I can't bring myself to file for divorce and I don't know why. I keep thinking of our wedding day, I remember every single detail. It's really sad.
I know what my husband has done is wrong, but I can't stop thinking of the memories we made together and as a family. What went wrong? I would give anything to go back in time and change the things that have happened. The bad thing is now my husband is being nice and understanding. He came to get the kids today and he bought them clothes and bought Vinnie baby snacks, etc... He told me he realizes he needs to stop working soo much and have a better relationship with the kids. WHy couldnt he do this when he was living here?
He was crying the other day saying how bad he messed up and how it's good I'm going back to school. I know he won't file for divorce, he must feel guilty, but he does want our marriage to end. I just think the guilt has overcome him and he can't really look at me anymore without feeling bad. He told me he wants 50/50 custody,it means neither of us have full custody of the kids, they alternate weeks at both of the parents houses. I told him I won't go for that, the kids are all I have and I can't go days without seeing them. Im just confused now, but I needed to get this out..thanks for reading.

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Registered: 04-26-2003
In reply to: kate923
Tue, 09-05-2006 - 8:54am
(((((hugs))))) to you Kate...I'm sorry you are going through all this...

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Registered: 01-31-2006
In reply to: kate923
Tue, 09-05-2006 - 3:44pm

Oh, Kate, I think it's understandable that you would be hesitant to file. You need to take your time and just do what's best for your kids and YOURSELF. ((((hugs)))) and I hope things get easier for you.

Erin

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