Ugh, more bad news, I hope 05 is better.

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Registered: 11-13-2003
Ugh, more bad news, I hope 05 is better.
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Tue, 01-04-2005 - 4:09am

I am SICK of this...

I feel like the last couple of years have sucked!!!! Everytime I answer the darn phone it's some family friend or police officer asking for the where-abouts of a loved one.

2 days before new years, I got yet another call, that a very dear and close family friend, his wife and thier 2 kids were in an accident. The wife died on impact. I cried for days. They were my mom & step dads best friends, & witnesses at thier wedding, and they went to school together. My dh & him had the same profession, and had a lot in common, and saw each other alot. Thankfully the girls were somewhat okay (2 days in hospital with minor breaks and bruises) the mom is gone, and the dad had extensive inguries, and will be in hospital for months, maybe up to a year they are saying. The pastor or their church is taking in the girls. The woman who died, just lost her own dad 2 days prior to this, but they hadn't gone up north yet because the "roads were too bad" ...go figure.

I have had the last 5 Christmas/New years "celebrations" crying, and making phone calls planning a funeral. I am so sick of this. Why in the world does this happen at this time of year???? I felt bad enough already with the 140,000+ people who lost thier life in the quake. What the heck is going on??? I really hate to be depressing, but sometimes, it all sucks. I am just so very sad, and upset.

Peace to you all,

L

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Tue, 01-04-2005 - 4:23am

Sorry things are bad right now. It seems like bad news is always harder at the holidays. I hope that this year will bring joy and good things.

Amber

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Tue, 01-04-2005 - 11:28am
I am so sorry for the loss you are having in a short period of time.
I will pray for that family. It must be really hard on those children to lose their mom like that.
I hope for the next 1000 years, you do not have to go through this.
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Tue, 01-04-2005 - 1:30pm

I second Amber and Mel. I wish nothing but happiness on you and your family.

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Tue, 01-04-2005 - 1:36pm
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