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Update on nephew....
| Tue, 11-30-2004 - 9:12am |
Well, it has been 2 weeks since the court hearing to decide where Cameron goes.
The judge told her that the fathers lawyer would contact my sister after the judge decided. Since she is not a lawyer and does not have one, he would tell the fathers lawyer and he would let her know.
Well, like I said, its been two weeks and nothing!! The lawyer refuses to speak to my sister, has not told her anything! The court says too bad, you are not a lawyer, you have to speak with him. GRRRRRRRRRRR
Angers me, to no point. I want to just kick this guy. He is a adult, a professional and he is playing games, and about a child.
I just wanted to let everyone know what was going on.
Please pray that this ends soon.
The judge told her that the fathers lawyer would contact my sister after the judge decided. Since she is not a lawyer and does not have one, he would tell the fathers lawyer and he would let her know.
Well, like I said, its been two weeks and nothing!! The lawyer refuses to speak to my sister, has not told her anything! The court says too bad, you are not a lawyer, you have to speak with him. GRRRRRRRRRRR
Angers me, to no point. I want to just kick this guy. He is a adult, a professional and he is playing games, and about a child.
I just wanted to let everyone know what was going on.
Please pray that this ends soon.





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That is odd. I am not sure why the judge could not tell your sister. I did have a lawyer when I got my divorce but my ex did not. Then when my ex took me back to court to try to get custody, I did not have a lawyer ( too much $$) but he did. I did all my paperwork and paid all the filing fees (I might as well be a lawyer..I felt like one!!)But the judge told me his decision (it was the same day). I know that each case is different and I am not sure what kind of situation your sister is in. I am sorry that your nephew is going thru this. My ex is always telling me that he is going to get custody of the children. Its been 4yrs since our divorce and we have been in court twice. THANKFULLY we have had the same judge each time and he think my ex is just trying to get out paying childsupport. There has been a 3rd attempt to take me back to court, but the judge threw it out. Just when you think my ex got the idea, I spoke with his mom the other day and apparenly he has found a lawyer that will take his case. What case there is no case??
Anyway, I will keep your nephew and family in my prayers. How old is he? Both my kids were still in diapers when my divorce was final and they really dont know about all the court dates b/c I havent told them what was going on. BUT, kids DO know more than you think they do. (((((((HUGS)))))))
Kay
They live in FL, and she has went to a place that offers advice for her for a minimum of money, not much. She just has not talked to them, she is being lazy about it.
Kay,
Thanks for the post. My nephew is 5 years old and knows what's going on. So sad that he is messed up because of this. Emotionally he just don't know what to think or feel. One second he wants to be with the mom and then the dad the next. I think he just wants to make them both happy and is scared he wont see the