Vent or gripe day

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Vent or gripe day
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Wed, 04-06-2005 - 10:30am
Here is a place to vent or gripe if you need to today :)
Let it all out, will make you feel much better

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Registered: 09-21-2004
Wed, 04-06-2005 - 11:25am

I have a big vent!!!!


Yesterday evening dh and I took the kids outside to ride bikes. We have a neighbor that was outside with her 10 year old daughter. Well most 10 year old girls love little ones, so she started pushing my three year old on his bike..which was really nice of her and saved my back!


I start gabbing with the mom while dh was raking leaves and look up just to check on my little one. The little girl was bent over...what?...I got a little confused thinking I was seeing this little girls butt...I thought it was kind of cute and funny until I realized SHE WAS WEARING A THONG!!!!!


I was just so flabbergasted that I made this little choking sound and the mom looks over at me and see's the look of horror on my face. Then she tells me "Oh, you know girls these days...they think they are grown."


WTF!!!!!!!!!!!!


SHE IS TEN AND YOU ARE THE MOM!!!! I am usually really outspoken but I just could not say a word. I cannot imagine how a conversation goes that a mom in a store with a 10 year old girl comes to decide to get her child a thong!! What do you say..."Hey mom, I know that I have only been on this earth for 10 years...but I really feel like I have enough life experience to handle myself in any situation where a pervert might take a liking to me when he notices I wear a thong." *MOM* "Well dear...I guess we could get you one...never mind the fact that I am single and have a different man over the house every week...they shouldn't notice you, I mean who ever heard of grown men taking advantage of a little girl who is allowed to dress sexy?" "Lets go ahead and get you the skimpiest we can find so that we can really sex you up!" "Hey I may even use you as bait for any freak pervert who pretends to get close to me, to get to you!"


It made me so sick and mad!!! I wanted to cry for that poor little girl. Why do some parents just cave in to what society is doing to our kids!!!


UGGHHHHH!!!!!!!!!


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Registered: 03-27-2003
Wed, 04-06-2005 - 11:45am

OH MY GOD!!!!


Why would her mother allow that!

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Registered: 01-06-2004
Wed, 04-06-2005 - 12:20pm
Im 25 and I don't even wear those things

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Wed, 04-06-2005 - 12:54pm

I agree...she is the CHILD...I saw a girl the other day at the bowling alley who had on one of those tight tight almost nothing shirts and it was her birthday and kids had written all over it, yes, even on her BOOBS..I think she was about 13-14...and it was barely even a piece of cloth...showed her stomach with the low cut jeans, etc. And I wanted to say to the mom...so, startin' her early on becoming a statistic, eh? GOOD JOB! I told my dh...if our daughter (if we ever have a daughter..hehe) tries to wear smut clothing, she's grounded until she's 36-37 years old. Ha.

My vent and gripe is this...unconscientious people...people who don't THINK before they act/say something. And dense men. Sometimes I think...men really just don't THINK, do they? They just open their mouths or do whatever it is without regard to who it might affect. Example...our ds has croup. He slept with us last night beside our bed...when we were about to go up ourselves, I said...you know, we can't turn on the tv in there with him in there...and he goes, sure we can, why not? DUH?! He's ASLEEP! And he's SICK! I wanted to say, fine...turn it on and when he wakes up, YOU put him back to sleep. I mean, can they not put someone else before themselves for ONE FREAKING NIGHT? And then this morning, my dh's alarm goes off..he always sets it 45 minutes before he has to get up so that it goes off like 6 times before it's finished. Well, since our ds was in there this time, I go, hey, why don't you just turn that off and I'll stay awake and get you up this morning? He goes...well, it helps me wake up gradually instead of having to jump out of bed after the first alarm. HELLO? Again, not thinking that we have our ds in the room and that he needs to rest as long as possible. So make the child suffer and wake up early, too...that's fair.

Grrrrr...men really can be very dense..and this is not the least of my stories about his denseness...just the latest thing.

Ugh.

Debbie

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Registered: 09-21-2004
Wed, 04-06-2005 - 4:01pm

On her boobs!!! God what is this world coming to...we might as well start throwing stripper parties for our sons...just to get them caught up, right?


***he always sets it 45 minutes before he has to get up so that it goes off like 6 times before it's finished. Well, since our ds was in there this time, I go, hey, why don't you just turn that off and I'll stay awake and get you up this morning? He goes...well, it helps me wake up gradually instead of having to jump out of bed after the first alarm. HELLO? Again, not thinking that we have our ds in the room and that he needs to rest as long as possible. So make the child suffer and wake up early, too...that's fair.*****


Oh my goodness Debbie...our husbands need to get together so

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Registered: 03-27-2003
Wed, 04-06-2005 - 4:10pm

since we on dh pet peeves... my dh is contantly negative when it comes to havyn.