Very Sad, need advice

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Registered: 09-16-2005
Very Sad, need advice
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Mon, 10-10-2005 - 9:32pm
My DH and I had a fight and it all started cause I put my son's sippy cup on the living room table so my son can get if wanted water, my husband took it and to me it look like he was forcing it at my son, so I said "you don't have to force him either" and he snapped but thing is it wasn't about that, he started telling me that I treat him like s*** and he started saying that "He's done to much for me, started screaming at me telling me that all this s*** in the house is all his that I haven't done s*** that I never have said thank you, nothing in the house belong to me, and that he has done to much way to much for me, and then he finished by saying "all this makes me sick to my stomach, I think I need to leave, I need to get away, you're not happy with me"
Never thought he thought like that, I have always been the kind of person that doesn't need to hear thank you from somebody, b/c i do it from my heart. Like when he was finishing school, he didn't work, I was working I was taking care of us, taking care of him, and never did I even thought to tell him this kind of stuff or for me the need to hear a thank you from him, I was doing it from heart cause I care about him and love him he is my family, never thought we think different,that I was doing everything wrong cause of the way that i am and think, am I wrong, am I the evil one, I don't know what to think or do, I am very wrong huh, I should be doing something/finding a job and telling him thank you. Please help.
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Mon, 10-10-2005 - 11:12pm
I really don't have advise, just wanted to offer you some (((((((((hugs))))))))).
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Registered: 11-26-2004
Mon, 10-10-2005 - 11:37pm
(((Hugs))) sweetie! Is this completely out of character for him? Maybe he had a bad day at work(which is still no excuse for him to take his anger out on you). I would just keep my distnace for the night and maybe y'all should
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Registered: 02-20-2005
Mon, 10-10-2005 - 11:58pm

oh sweetie, hang in there. It sounds like he may be feeling some stress and taking it out on you. Wait until he cools down, then maybe the two of you can talk about things. Also, he could just be

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Tue, 10-11-2005 - 12:05am
I agree with the pp that it may have been a bad day, perhaps a little breathing room for the night would be good for y'all.


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Registered: 09-16-2005
Tue, 10-11-2005 - 12:31am
thank you all, i appreciate it,it help me to calm down, I was crying my eyes out. thank you again for listen... :)
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Tue, 10-11-2005 - 12:53am

I just want to give Big ((((HUGS)))) to you. And agree with what everyone else is saying. More importantly, do give him thanks and praise (like what Desiree said), men sure do need that. Let us know how things are going in the days to come.

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Registered: 01-06-2004
Tue, 10-11-2005 - 8:43pm

Its always very hard when you have a fight.
I am sorry you had a rough noght and hope that things are better.


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