What a rotten day
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| Sat, 09-03-2005 - 8:41pm |
I need to vent a bit.
Today when I woke up, dh was already up watching tv. No big deal. I went to say good morning, and he practically bit my head off. I went about my morning feeding dd, cleaning and doing some laundry. He was so grouchy. I made pancakes and he hardly ate. I asked what was wrong, and of course he said nothing. So I continued on doing my things. He didnt want to do anything all day, just sit around and mope. Finally at 5pm, he had to go out for a friends stag party, a nice dinner at a restaurant, and some dancing "entertainment" by some local ladies (at the place were Ben Afleck was caught with a stripper when he was engaged to J Lo) Anyways, you would think he would be in a decent mood because he gets to go out! I would have loved to go out with my friends without dd lol. Still he's in a pissy mood.
When he left, I told him to have fun, and he snapped at me that he wont have fun, and that he's bored, and doesnt want to go. I let the door hit him on the way out lol.
I cant stand this mood. What is it with men???? Now I'm in a really ticked off mood, and I'm left alone tonight with dd, who doesnt deserve me to be in this mood. Sometimes I could rip his face off.
Thanks for letting me vent.

I am about 11 weeks or so now. Feeling good, just tired and emotional...his attitude DIDNT help one bit lol.
He did call earlier...only to ask for directions to the strip club...as if I'd know lol. I guess I'll have to have a talk when he gets home. I hate this.
Lesley, Big (((HUGS))) to you! You can vent all you want girl, we are here for you. I say let him sleep outside with the dog until his attitude changes...lol. Does he not remember that you are pregnant?
Olivia
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>>What is it with men????<<
Thankfully, there are many men who don't behave in that manner. I've only had one man pull the 'caveman' thing with me - and I ended the relationship pronto. No second chances. My DH wouldn't ever be moody, silent and cranky for a day.
Not only do we as partners deserve more, but our children do too. As mothers, we need to set the tone on what type of behaviour is acceptable in a house. You see, if our daughters see us tolerating that behaviour, then they'll grow up thinking that it's normal and that all men are like this.
Lesley, don't believe for a minute that all men are like this. You and your children deserve better, and don't be afraid to demand it.
I actually dont think that all men are like this...and the reason I posted this was because I was needing to vent.
Anyone on this board who knows me, knows that my dh is a very good dh, and I rarely have the need to vent or rant about him. Thanks for the input, but I really dont think I am doing my daughter a disservice by staying with her father, and she is not, and will not be growing up watching a horrible relationship. I have moody days, especially now that I'm pregnant, and I realize that he has them too, as I stated, it is rare, and that is why it bothers me so much.
I would never consider my dh to be a caveman, no matter how he acts, that's one of the reasons I married him
Lesley
Phew....glad to hear it.
I suppose I just got worried for you because of the amount of women who do tolerate all sorts of terrible behaviour from their husbands.
Perhaps I've been posting on these boards too long LOL
I just hate for this to be something more then just a bad day.
I hope he is better now :)