Where's Mel and Kate?

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Registered: 08-05-2004
Where's Mel and Kate?
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Fri, 07-21-2006 - 11:09am

I have been so busy lately with the kids' activities, moving and work and haven't been on here much.

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Registered: 11-05-2004
Fri, 07-21-2006 - 1:38pm
Hi,
I have been lurking, but really have nothing to post about. I have been busy with the kids, but that is not the reason that keeps me away. Im going through a bad time right now, I never thought this would happen to me. I just didnt want to post about it and bring everyone down. Thanks for thinking about me, and I could use some prayers right now.
Kate

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Registered: 08-05-2004
Fri, 07-21-2006 - 1:59pm

Oh Kate!

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Registered: 12-01-2005
Fri, 07-21-2006 - 2:04pm
{{{{{Hugs}}}}} Kate!!! If this has anything to do with the things we have discussed in the past, I have been there. E-mail me through my profile anytime!! Don't be a stranger, we are all here to support you and would never judge. hang in there and God bless you! Rose

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Registered: 11-05-2004
Fri, 07-21-2006 - 2:11pm
Thanks Shannon :) It's just a long story, but basically I told my husband to leave the house after he did some things he shouldn't have. I told him not to call me anymore, he needs to make a choice whether or not he wants to be married. He called all day yesterday, and he came to see the kids in the evening, which just upset Dom even more because he wanted him to stay. We have set up a time on Sunday so he can see the kids unfortunately he does have rights to them. I refuse to be treated like this any longer, and I may need to end our marriage because I cannot put up with this stuff anymore. It is a very sad situation, and I feel soo bad for Dominic, it is really taking a toll on him and he doesn't deserve this. It is also taking a toll on me, and Im trying to be strong and hold it together, but it's not always that easy. That's my story in a nutshell.
kate

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Fri, 07-21-2006 - 2:25pm
Kate, I'm so sorry!
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Fri, 07-21-2006 - 2:44pm
Kate I am so sorry to hear that things have gone bad again.

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Registered: 03-26-2003
Fri, 07-21-2006 - 4:49pm

((((Kate)))) I am so sorry to hear this! I actually thought about you yesterday, and wondered where you were, but figured you might be on vacation. Hang in there--I know you are a strong lady! Have you guys thought about counseling? Maybe a separation is what he needs to "snap" and get things figured out. I'm just really sorry you're going through this.

Please post whenever you want. We're all here for you! There's a wealth of advice and support and care from the women on this board. If you want to talk, or just need a friend, you can email me through my profile too. I will always be here for you! Many, many hugs to you.

You and your family will be in my prayers,

Sofia




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Registered: 01-31-2006
Sat, 07-22-2006 - 9:34am

Oh, Kate, I didn't know you were having problems. Don't worry about bringing us down, we're here if you need us. (((hugs))) I'm sure you're doing the right thing and I hope your dh get's his head out of his butt and acts like the husband and dad you all need. My prayers are with you.

Erin

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